Im in grade 7 and Im doing my best in school and Im responsible. But before I would lie to my parents like (say im going to my friends house for a project but really we would go out shopping and go to others ppl's houses) I would fight and swear and give them attitude. and well i regret for doing it soo much times I mean i wasnt like that before. :( but now im doing pretty great & well.but whenever i want to go to a friends house or to a party my parents r cautious who I hang out with and where Im going. They treat me like a lil kid. And im hatin it. My parents thinks i might get pregant when im young or involve myself with drugs or get myself a bad bf but still. I dont think or involve myself in that kind og stuff. it's just Im a pre-teen and I want my parents to get loose. Im going through stages and Im growing up! How do I let them to allow me to go out?? Soon I'll be in highschool I dont want them to still be like this! And I want them to trust me again. what should I do?plz help!
2007-03-18 07:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Babee Snapzz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Great question for me. I am a parent of a 7th grade girl that has been dishonest to me in the past.
Most important thing to me is to be honest. If I know i'm being told the truth, I will allow my child to take on additional responsibility. I cannot overstate how important honesty is. Try it for the next month. Not one lie to your parents, and see how things start to open up for you.
2007-03-18 07:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is built or destroyed. You have learned this lesson the hard way. Now, you don't care for the results. You need to have this conversation with your parent. Be honest and patient. If you are doing as well as you described, they will be giving you a chance to prove yourself worthy of their trust again.
2007-03-18 14:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one... you need to both act and talk maturely... if they find your ideas mature enough for them eg. when they have some minor or major problems, then you should come in and show them a solution or a few. They should start a conversation with you. Otherwise if they don't even bother talking over your ideas then you have to wait longer and sneak out :/.
2007-03-18 14:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize your parents are there to help you . By you not telling them the truth of where you are they have no way to help you if something happen to you . Always be truthful and they will trust you.
2007-03-18 14:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by pam f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie to them. duh. you have to earn their trust which means doing what you say you're gonna do so that they don't catch you in a lie sometime. keep your grades up and treat them with respect since they are your parents. when you flip out and swear and scream in an arguement, you're acting like a little kid and therefore, they will treat you like one. act like an adult and they'll relate to you more as one. but, you're not an adult so don't expect too much.
2007-03-18 14:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by megansa0811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they treat u like a kid because u ARE a kid! they are doing what good parents do and thats looking out for you..protecting u..respect them a bit more and youll get respect back.
2007-03-18 14:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them take care of u as they are doing now and be a good girl and remain good
2007-03-18 14:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them your responsible for what you do and your actions do the riight things and slowly they will trust you again i had the same problrm.
2007-03-18 14:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by majewskis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋