Ok me and (****) had been going out for 6 months and he was like the best thing that ever happend to me i have seriously never loved someone so much and well him and MY BEST friend are pretty close but you know i trusted both pf them so i didnt really mind but then we brok up and we were still together bcuz he told me the reasn he broke up with me was bc he thought i was moving but then i wasnt but he never asked me back out but he said he was going to and he said he still loved me but just wanted to be single so i was like ok w/e but thn i was like ok i know somthing is up with my best friend and him so i signed on to her myspace and read all the messages between him andher and they were talking about how they wanted to be alone and they loved eachother and they cant wait yto be with eachother alone so i ended it but now were ok and we have done some stuff like gf and bf do and i told himm i forgave him but still didnt have his trust, was this wrong or what just help me! plz
2007-03-18 06:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by sophia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear you.Look the guy was not only playing you but with your best friend.You may or may not take my advice but trust and remember what I am about to tell you.He will never be trustworthy and he will find a way to always twist things around to make him out of a victim of not knowing what he really wants.You deserve more.I know that you love him but he doesn't have love for you or otherwise he would of never did what he did.If it was a stranger it would been different but he had pit you against your best friend.Trust me no guy is worth losing a friend of over.I hope you take my advice so you won't be hurt be him.I am not saying these things to hurt you so the truth hurts.Trust me- he won't change and he will make things worse if you decide to stay with him.Don't get mad if he screw up again.If what I am telling you hurts your feeling then I am sorry.I have learned when someone telling you the right thing to do it hurts your heart really bad.It means you know it is true.
2007-03-18 07:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by jany50002002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young to be "doing some stuff like bf and gf".
The guys a player. Leave him alone. But to answer your question -- no. You shouldn't trust him. Actually you should never trust someone too much that you don't keep a system of checks and balances anyway, even in a marriage. You need to be totally open and offer things to your significant other without being prompted about it. He used you for that "gf and bf" stuff. I don't forsee him continuing it in any way that'd be satisfying to you after this.
2007-03-18 13:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by ryuku32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you told them about this, they would probably turn it around and get bad at you for going on to her myspace. That was wrong, but still this guy is probably no good, moving from girl to girl teeling them he loves her. You should find better! And this girl is not a good friend, I've kind of liked some of my friends boyfriends but would never go for them.
2007-03-18 13:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by dwmf05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would cut all ties with him and find someone else. He obviously doesn't care if he hurts you or he would not have had sex with your best friend. He sounds like a guy who would not hesitate to hurt you again.
If you have to get over him at some point, it's better now than later.
2007-03-18 13:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by octo75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is not your friend, this girl is not your friend....dump them both and find yourself somebody else to hang around with. You are way too young to be putting up with this kind of nonsense -- let the cheaters have each other you can do sooooooo much better. Good luck -k-
2007-03-18 13:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you trusted him in the begining than you wouldnt have gon on his myspace. since you did you dont really trust him, if he is going out with someone else find another person
2007-03-18 14:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldnt have let him kno that u forgave him so easily b/c he obviously is real sneaky and so is ur friend but other than that u did the rite thing
2007-03-18 13:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by ladycarebear101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were wrong for snooping. they were wrong for lying. you might forgive them, but youll never trust them again. find another boyfriend and get a new best friend. you dont need liars in your life.
2007-03-18 13:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can u reely trust him or ur bff if they went b-hind ur back and sed they were in luv! he broke up w/ u 4 her! i say he doesnt get a 2nd chance! find some1 else~
2007-03-18 13:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by here2help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not good enough for you. Leave the relationship now.
2007-03-18 13:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋