my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.i feel like the fall back to guy.she say im in her heart for marriage.
we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising then when the weekend rolls around she disappears..she tells me she needs to distance herself from me.after i tols her to tell him you still have feelings for me.she treats me like,if the relationship shes in now doesn't work i will take you back .i have asked her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that
2007-03-18 06:58:55 · 4 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is when you leave as cold as this sounds its for the better
She is using u as the fall back boy friend and when she finds another boyfriend she will dump you
dont be the fall out boy friend just say that you dotn want to be the fall out boy friend and find someone else
2007-03-18 07:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similar situation happened to me, except I was the girl. I went out with this guy for a while, broke up with him and immediately started seeing another guy. Then, after 3 months, I realized I still wanted to be with the first guy and he wanted to be with me. So, I broke up with the second guy with my first guy's love and support. However, I now feel like I made the wrong decision. It's been over a year since the first guy and I started dating and we recently broke up (only a few days ago). I now see that we still have the same problems that we did when I first broke up with him. He hasn't changed and neither have I. Because people don't change. If you guys have already broken up once, you might want to consider the fact that maybe it was for the best. You might save yourself a lot of heartache. I know if I would have taken this advice, I would have. . .
2007-03-18 14:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP that B!@tch and find someone new its time to move on. There is a saying if you ain't playing you being played.You are being played so pick up whats left of your dignity and let her catch you kissing someone else.
2007-03-18 14:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by bgdaddy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her shes crazy!
2007-03-18 14:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋