both married met him at a local club we shared the same hobby, he started by making faces at me, i noticed him & it all started. he was charming gave me so much attention & i fell in love with him. my marriage was going through difficulties, we talked, there was this attraction between us, unmistakable noticed by most. i had been married for 15years starting all over & giving up my home & kids even with the problems seemed very tough & i could'nt imagine the idea of him having to break his either, but 1day i did try 2 put an end to my marriage & left only 2 go back because my son,9 , started wetting his bed & so i told him that i chose my family but could'nt stand losing him & proposed we stayed together 2 which he refused..but there was this attraction still & 1day i invite him over, eventually he came, in bed kissing..he suddenly jumps out & says i won't sleep with u, why?he says many things & leaves. so hurt i stop speaking to him, suffered A LOT. some months later he dies he was 33
2007-03-18 06:32:57 · 3 answers · asked by inco g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he was only 33 years old, i never understood why he refused me in bed, he could have not come in the first place, and sometimes i blame myself for his death, what if i had left, would he have been still alive ? there isn't a day that goes by that I do not think of him, just as i was getting back to normal with my life, he dies...........................
2007-03-18 06:36:58 · update #1
All I can say is I'm so very sorry all this happened to you. You have my sincerest condolenses, and my deepest sympathies.
2007-03-18 06:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, I'm so sorry for that. I can imagine how difficult it must be for you. I don't know if there is anything I can say that can make you feel better, but the truth is there was no way you could have prevented him from dying. It is not your fault! Do not blame yourself. He is gone, now just try to move on with your life, your children...and working on how to be happy with what you have. Good luck and God bless you.
2007-03-18 13:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe guilt?
2007-03-18 13:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by rebarredforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋