Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

I'm in love with this girl but she don't care anything about me. I made a stupid mistake that at the time I didn't even know I had done anything and she still won't forgive me. She never felt the same way about me that I felt about her during the four months we talked, she never gave me a chance to take her anywhere or to show her that I could make a good boyfriend. It's been ten months since the last time we talked and I've been trying to let her go. She hasn't came to me to talk to me, even when she knew it was my birthday a month ago. Her birthday's in two weeks but I'm going to just say happy birthday to not be petty, without buying her anything. I've wrote two different letters I think about giving to her to tell her how I feel about her and that I want her friendship back at least since she doesn't like me, but I'm starting to think I should just give up. A part of me is saying to at least try then give up but I don't want to seem needy, obsessive or weak. I's also telling me she

2007-03-17 10:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 10:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge

2007-03-17 10:48:08 · 36 answers · asked by Shawn G 1 in Singles & Dating

My father is getting married in June 2007. They are having a big formal wedding. He has been with her for about 18 years. . My issue is that I am not sure my role in anything. Is there anything I should be doing. And what about a speech. I have searched all over online and find nothing about a 27 year old womans father getting married
There are no daughter of the groom shirts, speeches, etc.
Any suggestions would be awesome

2007-03-17 10:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

thanks to everyone that answered.

2007-03-17 10:47:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 30, no kids. My husband and I are like night and day. It is not working. I am scared to take it to the next level, even thought I know this is what I should do. I have known that it would not work since we got married and stayed just out of laziness, taking the easy situation..
help.

2007-03-17 10:47:08 · 27 answers · asked by yannm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and this girl have one class together, and lunch together.(in highschool) We are friends and we talk in class, one time I caught her kind of playing with her hair when she was talkin to me. We joke around alot, once when she was jokin around she started pokin me in the arm kiddin around at something (i don't know if this counts as the sign that she is tryin to touch me), she'll say hey in the halls to me usually, we keep good eyecontact when we are talkin, what else can I look for to tell if she likes me?
Does it sound like she likes me, what other info should I give?

She also (i don't know if this is joking) called me sexy once and tells me to call her that.

2007-03-17 10:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

A say "i am sorry but i am not interested in you that way ..." then go back to how things were before
or
B say "i am sorry but i am not interested in you that way ..."
then drift away and dont speak to them again
or
C dont say anything but drift away and dont speak to them again

and has any of them happened to you

2007-03-17 10:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by Michael D 6 in Singles & Dating

can anyone suggest anything to cheer me up????
please i feel lost!!!!

2007-03-17 10:46:04 · 37 answers · asked by fear of the dark 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and like everyone at school at the begining of the year were like best friends. then this new girl came along near the middle of the year and all this drama came up and now we've all drifted apart and no one is as happy as they used to be and we've just not had any of those fun kinnda joke around friendship moments. i really miss the way things were and im sure everyone else does too. what do i do?

2007-03-17 10:45:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-17 10:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by SweetiePie 3 in Singles & Dating

I've fallen down and I don't know what to do and I'm starting to get hungry

2007-03-17 10:45:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a friend and she moved and i never got in contact with her does any1 know her? her name is laura krupke

2007-03-17 10:44:59 · 2 answers · asked by ginger 1 in Friends

I am 30, no kids. My husband and I are like night and day. It is not working. I am scared to take it to the next level, even thought I know this is what I should do. I have known that it would not work since we got married and stayed just out of laziness, taking the easy situation..
help.

2007-03-17 10:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by yannm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 10:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by emma 2 in Singles & Dating

Would a hot girl be flattered if a not so attractive person flirted with her? As far as flirting goes, i have confidence for only the 1st flirting session, i can't flirt anymore after that..i lose confidence. I've been told that not so attractive people shouldn't flirt with hot people....they should flirt with people in the same attractive level as them.

2007-03-17 10:44:34 · 1 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding colors are teal and dark chocolate brown. The bridesmaids are going to be wearing a chocolate brown dress with a teal sash. What color should the tuxes be? I don't think my fiance would feel comfortable wearing white- besides, he has a very light complexion.

2007-03-17 10:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Weddings

how do I tell my boyfriend I don't want him spending so much money on him? He needs to get a new starter on his car because his is going bad but he's more worried about spending money on me and he won't put that money aside to fix his starter. What do I do and how can I tell him to stop spending so much on me without hurting his feelings? He says he's only happy when he spends money on me

2007-03-17 10:43:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago, for various reasons, I woman I know told me that she wasn't attracted to me, never thought about a relationship, didn't feel any chemistry (just a mental attraction), she doesn't treat me any differently than her guy friends, etc. This came as a major shock to me, as she sent off many, many signals that she wanted to more than just friends. This was not my imagination either - lots of people made comments to each of us saying "you make a nice couple," "looks like you have a hot and heavy relationship," etc.

She knew I was interested in her, and said she was sorry for not having told me sooner. She claims that doesn't understand how her behavior could have misconstrued - she is just a naturally friendly person.

Here is what I am trying to understand - can she be that oblivious to what she is doing, even after many, many people say otherwise?

2007-03-17 10:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by aggiesfan1982 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 10:39:59 · 4 answers · asked by T-Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

i went skiing with my friend over spring break. her brother and one of his drove in a seperate car.the second day we were there we didnt go skiing as planned we shopped and then later that night hung out with her brother and his friend.we were sitting in their room talking when all of a sudden her brother's friend dicided to turn off the lights so we could see the stars. my friend and her brother's friend talked and sang and stuff like that while me and her brother talked. all of a sudden her brother kissed me!!!i kissed him back!it would have been really awesome but i have a boy friend!!!i have no idea what to do go out with my friends brother(who treats me kinda better than my current boyfriend)or my boyfriend!!!HELP!!!

2007-03-17 10:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by Kaitlyn P 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 10:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by mamado 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night I looked in my boyfriends phone and saw that he texted a message to one of his friends for him to tell this girl that he will be looking forward to seeing her pretty smile again. I flipped!!! Friday night he had plans with the guys and I don't go of course because it's just the guys. But come to find out it was going to be 3 other girls and my boyfriend and 2 of his friends. Sounds like a triple date to me but he's denying it to the fullest. We got into a huge fight and he took his stuff and stayed out last night. Were broken up now but what I want to know is did I make the right decision or did I over react? This type of thing constantly happens and I think that it's extremely disrespectful and not only that. He doesn't even bother to cover up his tracks. At least delete the messages before you come home.

2007-03-17 10:38:29 · 25 answers · asked by misscancer10 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, well i was dating this guy but knew that it would end soon, and i had my eye on my guy friend David. I told David that I liked him more than a friend, and he said he liked me too but he's not ready to date because he just got out of a relationship. I then dumped my bf, for many reasons, one of them being my feelings for David. Me and David talk more, and I know that he knows that I like him lol. But he doesn't really show any feelings for me and i feel like just a friend to him. Should i keep trying it with this guy, or should I just ive up?

2007-03-17 10:38:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy asked me out and he said can i take you out for dinner or perhaps out for drink.
And i said: No to dinner or drinks but I could meet you for coffee and by the way this is not a date..

He said great im look forward to that.

Guys what do you think of this? And how would you guys react if a girl told u this?

2007-03-17 10:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

we all still hang out .. but she doesn't really talk to him as much anymore , however whenever I talk to him about something she believes that I like him, when I don't. I just feel more comfortable talking to him about certain things..any input?

2007-03-17 10:37:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-17 10:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by cheeta_girl96 1 in Friends

2007-03-17 10:36:12 · 25 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, when i make out with my girlfriend i occasionally become aroused. When i have to stand-up and im still aroused should i either try and hide it, or should i be playful and be like "ohh, thanks. Look what you did to me"?

2007-03-17 10:36:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kenny Smooth 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl definitely doesn't want to "jump right in", but waiting too long could be disatrous, too. Any idea? (oh, please don't say 'wait for marriage' (I'm 32). Thanks. ;-)

2007-03-17 10:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating