A girl definitely doesn't want to "jump right in", but waiting too long could be disatrous, too. Any idea? (oh, please don't say 'wait for marriage' (I'm 32). Thanks. ;-)
2007-03-17 10:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur 32 U kno the right answer don't you? please i am a teenager and know you immature person
2007-03-17 10:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by pistoluser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy who dates a fair amount, and my best answer to you is....wait! Wait as long as you can; tease a little, send him home wanting more and ready to come back. I will never refuse sex from a woman I attracted to, but if it comes out to soon, the challenge is over and then, so is the game. Most men are hunters by nature, and the stalk is the thrill. If he gets his prize trophy right away, the excitement is gone. I had one g/f who would kiss and make out and let me reach third base, but I could never make it home for like two months. I was crazy over this girl. To bad we did not share a lot of similar beliefs about life in general. So, in short, give him something, but not everything!
2007-03-17 17:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by savmitch1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the moment feels right and there is a connection, even after the first date won't be craziness. My answer would be, do it when it's right for both of you, not because a certain amount of time has passed...
Personally, I've never "jumped right in". It's been typically a month of dating before on average. Though one-night stands shouldn't count.
2007-03-17 17:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by bonnieXX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many factors, including your own thoughts about it, and how he is likely to see it - jumping right in can be OK at times. My first wife and I had sex on our first date - we were together for 15 years (married for the last 9 before she passed away.) My current wife and I did the deed on our second date - we've been married for 2 years now, with no problems in sight.
Problem is, I don't personally see sex as meaning anything but that she finds me physically attractive, whereas some men will see this as being "easy". It all depends on the individuals involved - both you and him.
2007-03-17 18:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels right to you, go ahead. Personally, a couple of dates out of the way so you have an idea of who it is you're going out with makes me more comfortable.... but in the case of my husband... I had known him for like 3 hours, and we are going on married for 13 years... lol
2007-03-17 17:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were going out with me after the second date would be fine for me. It all depends on how the guy makes you feel about yourself and how you feel about if you want to go all the way with a guy. But hey if you want to ahve sex IM me anytime and I'll be there for anything.
2007-03-17 17:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem as though you want to do it now.lol Whenever it feels right is when you should do it. At 32, you should know when the time is right.
2007-03-17 17:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just what feels right with the couple. whatever you feel is right for you. i believe that a first date, with someone you really like, is waaayyyy too early. same for the second and the third. then, after that its just up to your comfort levels.
2007-03-17 17:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by LC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with more than five dates in one month you have a green light to jump in.
btw, waiting for sex until marriage is disastrous. especially if it is his marriage and you are not the bride ;)
2007-03-17 17:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats your personal decision, but you should wait atleast a few months to a year. I guess?
2007-03-17 17:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til it feels right, and it feels right with different guys so that all depends on you and where you stand with this topic.
2007-03-17 17:44:18 · answer #11 · answered by brooke3348 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋