I'm in love with this girl but she don't care anything about me. I made a stupid mistake that at the time I didn't even know I had done anything and she still won't forgive me. She never felt the same way about me that I felt about her during the four months we talked, she never gave me a chance to take her anywhere or to show her that I could make a good boyfriend. It's been ten months since the last time we talked and I've been trying to let her go. She hasn't came to me to talk to me, even when she knew it was my birthday a month ago. Her birthday's in two weeks but I'm going to just say happy birthday to not be petty, without buying her anything. I've wrote two different letters I think about giving to her to tell her how I feel about her and that I want her friendship back at least since she doesn't like me, but I'm starting to think I should just give up. A part of me is saying to at least try then give up but I don't want to seem needy, obsessive or weak. I's also telling me she
2007-03-17 10:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(*It's) not worth my time since she doesn't care about me the way I care about her. I just want to be her friend at least and I don't like the way the boys she likes treat her, they're not courteous to her at all. I'm thinking I should just forget her, find someone else and not even try. It's just I never met anyone like her before. I've gotten over other girls in less than two weeks.
2007-03-17 10:51:58 · update #1
She knows I exist, she just pretends I don't until I'm talking to another girl
2007-03-17 10:58:10 · update #2
give her the letters. and if she doesnt responde to tehm, then move on. you WILL find someoene better. and you WILL move on trust me. sounds like you are thinking about her too much, not letting yourself move on. youve got to let yourself move on if you really want to. but i think you SHOULD give her the letters to show her how u feel . girls like that! good luck
2007-03-17 10:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by sd_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go do not let her take up anymore space in your head you deserve somebody who cares about your feelings. I just went through something similar and it sucks to know that somebody you loved and who you thought loved and cared for you can just make it seem as though you never even existed or shared anything. I am kind of over it but im still hurt by that. You will get over it but you need to leave this person alone you will never heal until you distance yourself. Take this as a learning experience and move on. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-17 18:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rainy Dayz I'll be glad when you let the sun shine on YOU!!
You know you deserve better, than the way she is treating you....
Move on....
It may be hard to do at first, but you can do it!!!
One day, she's going to think about you & kick herself in the azz for letting a good guy get away.
But, her loss is some other deserving girl's gain, just remember not to let anyone else treat you like this....
Nor, should you compare other girls to her, or be bitter because of her. Take care, & stay true to you...
2007-03-17 20:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell my boys this " You want a girl who can't see past YOU!." Marriage and relationships are hard enough. Start out with the best for yourself. Put YOUR best interest first. You are worth it. Don't pine away for a girl who doesn't know you exist. Develop your self confidence and tell her she just missed out! You are no longer "on the market"! Girls can be a pain in the neck! Your mom would hate to see you so upset! (I'm a mom of two boys 15, and 19).
2007-03-17 17:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has made it pretty clear that shes is not giving you a chance so get her a gift but not to big, then try dating if that dose not work out then give her the letters
2007-03-17 17:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by anna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋