i went skiing with my friend over spring break. her brother and one of his drove in a seperate car.the second day we were there we didnt go skiing as planned we shopped and then later that night hung out with her brother and his friend.we were sitting in their room talking when all of a sudden her brother's friend dicided to turn off the lights so we could see the stars. my friend and her brother's friend talked and sang and stuff like that while me and her brother talked. all of a sudden her brother kissed me!!!i kissed him back!it would have been really awesome but i have a boy friend!!!i have no idea what to do go out with my friends brother(who treats me kinda better than my current boyfriend)or my boyfriend!!!HELP!!!
2007-03-17 10:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by Kaitlyn P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be HONEST with your current guy whatever happens you will know what do do but you don't want to harm yourself by lying or keeping secrets in your relationship.
You should really evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend if you are drifting. If your boyfriend were taking care of you & your needs like he should you would have no reason to drift..
Write down all the positives and negatives in your current relationship if the negatives outweigh the positives really think about curing whatever is curable!(first)
If your current boyfriend does not treat you badly and just needs a little talking and polishing you should give him a chance. Otherwise be HONESTand end it.
As far as you kissing the new guy that was kinda bad on your part I mean that can really hurt someone and you were still in a relationship. Relationships take time do you really want to throw away the time and work you put into your current relationship?? Think about if it is worth throwing away because of a winter- fling! You never know what if the new guy turns out to be an @$$.. (You know how the first months of dating go everbody is faking!!)
Take that time to really get to know the new guy in a safe way first if anything! Remember LIKING NEVER OUTWEIGHS LOVING!
2007-03-17 10:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by phenomenol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like your boyfriend anymore and he doesn't treat you well, break up with him. Do not be immature about it, be kind, and don't metion this new guy. Please don't say the "let's just be friend's line". Guy's hate that and it makes them feel worse.
Wait a while, don't automatically jump into a relationship with this guy. Give yourself a couple of weeks to a month to live as a single girl. You could maybe date this guy during that time (casually and around other people) then, if it turns out you still like him and he likes you, you can be in a relationship.
2007-03-17 17:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if you are planning to go out with this guy, then break up with your boyfriend, If not then tell him that you have a boyfriend.
Secondly, (if you are planning to go out with him) then you need to talk to your friend first, because this can cause a lot of drama if you don't.
Thirdly, You need to question what makes you happy, and if it really will make you happy to change boyfriends like that, it might be a mistake that you might not be able to recover from...well good luck
2007-03-17 17:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by jordanswiener 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump Ya Boyfriend And Take Ya Bros Main Man!!
2007-03-17 17:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ƨℓαʏɛᴚღ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you like him talk to him. If he likes you just take it slow but always remember that you have a bf so if you want to go out with him break up with your other BF do it nicely~!!
Take it slow about what u choose to do!! Don't cheat on them!
Good Luck!!
2007-03-17 20:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remember that you have a boyfriend and try to be a good person, or dump the old for the new. Don't try to have them both. That would be wrong and you know it.
2007-03-17 17:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st check with friend then if she likes the idea see if you really like her bro if u like him more than your current boyfriend dump him and go out with your friends bro but u have 2 be sure
2007-03-17 17:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tay Tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just choose which one you like better. Not just how cute they are but their personality. Choose which one you like better and if it's your bf than just don't mention anything and if it's the guy you like than tell your bf in a calm way and see what he says. You can also tell the guy you like.
2007-03-17 17:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly G. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you could always just follow what your heart is telling you to do or just take a risk and go out w/ him just to try something new maybe it will go far than you think it will
2007-03-17 17:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have both, secretly or in 3-some. You probably won't marry either of them so who cares right?
2007-03-17 17:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋