A say "i am sorry but i am not interested in you that way ..." then go back to how things were before
or
B say "i am sorry but i am not interested in you that way ..."
then drift away and dont speak to them again
or
C dont say anything but drift away and dont speak to them again
and has any of them happened to you
2007-03-17 10:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by Michael D 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey this has hapond to me twice i got B and C as a reply
2007-03-17 10:52:43 · update #1
i am not in tis situation i have aledy ben oin it 2 times but was the one who liked them but was not liked
2007-03-17 10:55:44 · update #2
ok so maby i did not quite make my question clear I am not in this situation i am wondering how you would react (it is up to you how you found out) but all i would like to know is the anser i mean is it my look to get the worst ansers i understand that i might not be everyones (or anyones) cup of tea but that dose not mean to say that i will go after some ting that is way out of reach (well as long as i am told its out of reach)
2007-03-17 11:09:32 · update #3
Unless they actually told me, then I wouldn't say anything to them, and would just continue as before. But If they did tell me, then I would probably go for A, if that was possible. I have never been in this situation though.
2007-03-17 10:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kirsty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surely you could tell them that you like them but not romantically and could you still be friends , i would say answer A but the other person might find it hard to go back to the way things were .. although it would be a shame to lose contact but sometimes depending how much off a crush the person has cutting ties is all that can be done ..
Good Luck x
2007-03-17 10:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sounds good as long as you are honest and try to talk to the person in a normal way so she is not getting mad or anything or saying that you changed cause you now that you guys feeling different ways.
If A is what fits you best, do it like that. I think it is not nice not speaking to anyone again after telling them you don't feel the same way either not talking to the person at all.
It happened to me once and I talked to the person, in a normal way and we made it back to a normal friendship.
2007-03-17 11:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by silket23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple just say "I'm sorry I dont like you in that way" it's best to be apologetic and straight forward because if you give them some random story or just dont speak to them again then you're going to leave them wondering and thinking that they've got a chance with you, which isnt very fair.
2007-03-17 11:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you left out the most obvious answer, and it is the most painful. I think that you have to tell the person, otherwise they will continue to chase, but they will then feel hurt and not speak to you as much or at all. It happened to me when a g/f said that same thing to me. I appreciated the honesty, but the pride does get damaged a bit.
2007-03-17 10:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by savmitch1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither of them cos they are all insensitve:
A: is impossible to do - but we all know the generic reply: "just friends"
B: breaks too many hearts
C: omg, talk about being kicked while you're down
I guess the lesser of three evils has to be A.
2007-03-17 10:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with A, but it would not really be able to work out because you guys would never have that type of friendship you had before....usually, people would go with B naturally even when they wanna go with A
2007-03-17 10:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Em 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A sounds good
2007-03-17 10:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by KKL2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of how you would want to hear that if it were you, revers it and tell them. Good Luck
2007-03-17 10:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be honest and just tell them the way it is
2007-03-17 10:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋