we all still hang out .. but she doesn't really talk to him as much anymore , however whenever I talk to him about something she believes that I like him, when I don't. I just feel more comfortable talking to him about certain things..any input?
2007-03-17 10:37:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let your girlfriend know that he is just a friend. You understand that they had a relationship but he is just a friend your best guy friend at that. Let her know that there are somethings you feel comfortable mentioning to him not because you like him because he is just your friend.
2007-03-17 11:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by snicker4274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex-girlfriends are always very jealous over their ex-boyfriends.
trying to solve it will only make you look guilty.
Be cool and whenever she suggests anything about you two being together laugh at how stupid and ridiculous she's being (or pretend you're trying not to laugh)
What I'd personally do is use inverse psychology while showing my friend that her suspicion is annoyingly ridiculous and will not be tolerated. I.e. Whenever she mentioned it, I'd be like, "OMG, you're friggin obsessed!! You know what, I don't even wanna be friends anymore if all we're ever going to talk about is him!! THIS is exactly why I like him as a friend, because he doesn't obsess over things like you do. Grow up!"
But you have to be a great actress to pull it off, because if you show some weakness, it'll only make her more suspicious.
If you're NOT an actress, just tell her in a very solemn tone, "You are obsessed and I think it's really sad because it's killing our friendship."
2007-03-17 11:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by its just me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you and her ex best friends before they started going out?
If this friendship with him has occured here recently and she doesn't approve..... then it's probably best you back off.
If this is a friendship you had before they got together, she has no right to expect you to lose a friend because she lost a boyfriend.
2007-03-17 10:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not weird. You are subliminally attracted to him. Perhaps the pheromones are just right (body chemistry) and if truth be told... you are probably at least a little horny for him. Explain to your friend that you think you might have some feelings for this guy. She will understand if she is truly your friend. If she gets mad, dump her and go with the boy! Just let your heart and your hot little body be your guide!
:-)
2007-03-17 10:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So i extremely did this to my perfect pal, so i will supply you the point of view of the perfect pal who dates the ex i assume? reckoning on how previously you men broke up perhaps she assumes you're over him? I waited a pair years before we began relationship. we are actually not acquaintances as a results of region... even in spite of the shown fact that, i do no longer see any way you are able to no longer make it awkward...
2016-10-02 07:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wierd cuz if you guys r just friends u should hang out but just dont try to hang out with u best friend and your best friends ex at the same time
2007-03-17 10:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by gibasketball33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not think it is weird, but your friend may have a problem with this. What if your friend was friends with your ex boyfriend? How would you handle that?
2007-03-17 10:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes very wierd just keep your friendship with him at a steady pace as maby your best friend still has feelings for him and you may make a move with him and cause a problem and they always say people always fall for their best friends
2007-03-17 10:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by cutemarv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coincidence does happen. it does have to be any direct doing of yours for either party 2 b offended. what u have to do though is b careful of ur gestures or choice of words since, especially the girl is very sensitive.
2007-03-17 10:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird...im in the same boat....and really...idc if she thinks i like him..but then i do..becuz i care about her..and i care about him..and i kno that i can talk to both of them..but same with u...there is certain things u can talk to one of them about that u cant with the other one...
2007-03-17 10:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by tina o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋