Miserable
2007-03-18 06:28:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I didn't tease people in high school, because I had grown up with 3 brothers I knew what it was like to be teased.
I don't think giving people a dose of their own medicine is always the best thing to do. It lowers you to their standards.
In other words, it's as if you said, "You did this to me, now I'm going to do the same to you."
Revenge is never the answer.
Being happy and healthy for your own well-being is the reward you should have for taking care of yourself, and continuing to take care of yourself.
What you should do from now on, is set an example of not teasing, and not taking revenge on people who have wronged you. Furthermore, you should respect people for the content of their character, and not their outside 'shell.'
2007-03-17 10:56:15
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answered by doublewidemama 6
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Okay I believe what goes around comes around, but you could also be a bigger person....two wrongs don't make a right.
I mean great for you that you feel better about your appearance, but is compromising your integrity really worth the revenge? Do you really want to be like the people you despised so much in high school?
This is not meant to offend, but it sounds like you still have deeper issues that need to be dealt with. Those girls would've gotten what they deserved in one way or another, karma is a b**ch. It's not your job to be karma.
2007-03-17 10:58:18
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answered by afwife 2
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Next time you are home, talk to them. Let them know how much they hurt you in high school and that you can't forget that now; So there could never be a serious relationship. Even if it is hard, try to stay on good terms with them. Be the bigger person. This same thing happened to my cousin except he was the kid that made fun of the geeky girl and then saw her again a few weeks later. she let him know how much he hurt her. They worked it out and now they are friends.
good luck
2007-03-17 10:54:57
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answered by Anonymous
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I was teased in high school because of how I talk and who my friends were. I had glasses, braces, and was tall and skinny. Now, I get hit on constantly! I can understand how the idea of revenge can seem pretty enticing. Having said that, I think that rejecting the girls was ok, insulting them was just salt in the wound. BRAVO!!!!
2007-03-17 10:53:22
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answered by btrfli1172 3
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It is good revenge but it probably isn't stuck in their mind like being teased all of high school is stuck on yours. It basically is karma for them.
2007-03-17 11:00:12
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answered by The Kid4729 2
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No, the best revenge is ignoring them, but you already did it.
but you first question was not that, if you had ignored one, and she came to you, you reject her, that would be horrible for her.
Better make peace with them. demonstrate them you are a gentleman, and you tongue made you a trick. Not worth to have her as enemies, and be as mean as they were
2007-03-17 10:59:34
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answered by Anonymous
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They deserve it, OK. But it isn't nice story about your personality. Forget those girls and find someone who is sweet,sensitive and understanding.Forget on revenge and go on with your life. Good luck.
2007-03-17 10:58:12
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answered by vdt 3
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How did it make you feel after you did it? If you feel bad then there's hope. Move on with your life and don't do it again. If you felf good about it, then just remember that payback is brutal, and karma comes around whether you believe it or not.
2007-03-17 10:52:25
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answered by Lisa D 5
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Yeh, I'd never date a guy that once teased me. Rejecting them should of been enough though. By insulting them, your stooping to their level.
2007-03-17 10:52:22
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answered by Anonymous
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