Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

I met him when we were both drunk at the uni club, he kept coming by when he was drunk, but now has started to come over sober. He says he can't control him self when he is near me and likes me. Trouble is, he has a girlfriend who he lives with just down the road. I have been the adult and told him to leave when it got hot and heavy. We have slept together though. His girlfriend chucked me out of the bar tonight (small town) and now i just want to carry it on even more, its cruel i know. but the girl inside me tells me to stay clear and it's not fair on her. So should i carry on this "affair" or stay well clear?

2007-03-17 14:12:40 · 22 answers · asked by Confused Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

he dated my bestfriend for more than a year and he knew this girl before either of us. she's a senior now and he's a junior. me and my bestfriend are both sophomores. after a few months of their break up we started seeing each other then he broke up with me coz he thought he hurt me then we got back together then he broke up with me again coz he said he missed his ex and now he says he wants me back but I wanted proof so he said he needed to grow up before getting back with me again...then someone told me that he called his friend who's now a senior in tears coz he thought ppl saw him as a bad person and he said he's sad coz he wants us (me and my friend) both...my source says he wants her as a friend and me as more than that...but I think he likes this senior as m ore...she is his first girl in his myspace...i noe it shouldn't matter, but who does he want? and should I wait for him to grow up or move on?

2007-03-17 14:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2 in Singles & Dating

it is very frustrating becuase i have a huge crush on a guy i met a couple months ago and he's a very nice person. im always thinking about him and wanting to be around him. he talks to me sometimes and i always get the feeling that he likes me too.but everytime i wanna tell him i like him i freeze up and get nervous. so what can i do to make it easier? how do i tell him how i feel without looking like a fool.

2007-03-17 14:12:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like for example: Either to be with you or to just get in your pants? What are some signs?

2007-03-17 14:12:20 · 5 answers · asked by marya 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't even know if it's a crush anymore since it's been over a year that I've felt this way. I have plenty of guys who want to date me, but I've never felt so connected with person as I do with him and I don't think anyone else measures up. I would never act on my feelings for him. He's happily married and I'd never be the "other woman" even if it were a possibility.What should I do?

2007-03-17 14:12:11 · 6 answers · asked by aliceintears77 1 in Singles & Dating

In front of my boyfriends friends he acted so different,he didnt want to kiss me and he just acted like he didnt want me there and when one of my friends came up to hug me. When i turned back around to see my boyfriend,he was just walking away with his friends.I tryed to call his friend's cell and he said that my boyfriend was busy and then he handed the phone to some girl and i started yelling at her and told her to tell my boyfriend to call me when he got home and she said that he was having issues w/ our relationship and that he doesnt want to call me.
So i went to his brother's house and talked to him about it and he just said that was messed up. and didnt understand him.Because yesterday he told me that he loved me and didnt want to hurt me. But he is hurting me and wont call me and i dont know what to do.Please somebody give me some advise!!!

2007-03-17 14:12:07 · 1 answers · asked by punknotgothgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 14:11:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16 now and shes currently 14
we talk alot, we get along extremely well, we're really close
i was thinking that we could move in when im 19 and shes 17
is that good ? or is 18 and 16 good ?
or
what age do you think I should be [older one] ?
please and thanks

2007-03-17 14:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I was wandering how do all of you have sex in what position? I have always been on top (I am the male) except for once when I did it with her on top. How do you all do sex? Man on top or woman on top? And I am not being sex perverted either I just like getting public opinion. If you do it both ways what is your favorite?

2007-03-17 14:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by Martin A Neville 4 in Singles & Dating

15 pretty i quess , alone , just broke up w/ my bf and i'm eating ben&jerry's icecream ....help

2007-03-17 14:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by 2 a'da da dorable' 4 u 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend had a sexless marriage, but she managed to keep friends with her husband. Did you?

2007-03-17 14:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering, because my favorite movies are guy flicks, like action movies and movies with killing.....is that weird??

2007-03-17 14:07:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there any chance that my wife could have really been a virgin when we met at 21. she has always told me how she was so sexual as far as her thoughts were concerned as a child growing up. and she is and was always a complete knockout!! and everyone that has ever met her has thought the same thing. is she just saying this for me or could it be true. i don't have any reason to think differently i'm just wondering and it won't change my feelings for her.

2007-03-17 14:06:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not at all into the bar or club scene (and won't go there anyway), so I would like to try a dating site to find someone (I just moved so I know no one around where I live right now). Any ideas on what the best dating website is? One where girls are also actively looking and would be the most likely place to find someone who matches well? Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-03-17 14:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by TPmy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 14:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't mean anything sexual.

Mine is ... When ever I want something sweet, he will happily drive to the store and pick me up what ever I am craving.

2007-03-17 14:05:43 · 27 answers · asked by ~•over the moon•~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, last time i told all of you about my gf. if you don't know what im talking about, i wil explain again. ok this is how it goes, my gf whos 23 years old, i been dating for a while now. anyway before she dated me, she had a ex bf, and they made the choice to have a baby, but broke up a few weeks later. anyway she told me she was going to have a baby thats not even mine!. we never had sex, and she said shes going to keep the baby. anyway i came here and asked for advice, and i told her how i felt. i said im glad shes keeping the baby, and im still going to be with her, i love her, and i will help her take care of the baby. im 18, and my 23 year old gf is having a baby thats not mine, but i made the choice to stay. i got a job, and i can help her if she needs it. were not getitng married, and she said shes never going to see her ex again. i love her, and if that means baby sitting the baby if she has to go somewhere, i won't mind. what are your thoughts on this? and be 100% honest

2007-03-17 14:05:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 14:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by ikemenz 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, we have been going out for 4 1/2 months, 5 on April 4. We have said I love you, and hug. He is too shy to hold hands or kiss!!! I dont know what to do!!!! What can i do to be able to do those things????

2007-03-17 14:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Singles & Dating

It's been a month ago since we had sex. I asked him why and he said its stress and depression because he is currently unemploy and staying home taking care of our child.(he is not the real dad & he knows it) He also said he is not physically attracted to me anymore. He says he still loves me. what should I do? Should i stay to work things out?...after he finds a job maybe it will go back to it was before. Should I leave so both of us can be happy? I don't think nothing is wrong with me, I'm hot and sweet-so changing anything is the answer. Does he really loves me? Can the attraction comes back to him? He also said sex to him does not feel good anymore. He doesn't have any problem getting it up. And I feel like he is detached since he started staying home and taking care of the baby. I love him but if he doesn't find me attractive then I'm scared he will cheat on me. I need a good advice.

2007-03-17 14:04:41 · 15 answers · asked by aighngel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 14:04:24 · 4 answers · asked by cookinbap 1 in Family

ok we meet in 5 gr and i fell in love with him since 3 i have his # and i really want to call him but im scared !! i love him so much i want to do whatever just to talk to him his name is junior mannuel de los Santos if anyone noes him guess who i am ?? i need advice

2007-03-17 14:04:18 · 2 answers · asked by diana d 1 in Friends

I still really love my ex and he knows i like him but yesterday he asked me to ask out my best friend. Which I did and she said no. I really want to tell him how i feel but i dont know how cause i know he really likes her and hes gonna keep tryin. Then on the pther hand i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and everyday he tells me he still loves me and why do i even love my ex and he's just so stressful. And its all to much right now. What should i do??

2007-03-17 14:03:20 · 3 answers · asked by Kim D 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need an answer

2007-03-17 14:02:46 · 16 answers · asked by Samantha T 1 in Singles & Dating

hello,

what do yo guys think of:
http://arcadehog.com/tash

It's a free dating website, my friends said it was great, what do you guys think of it?

My parents are around and i dont want to try it out right now but i want to know if ti's worth it, can someone else join and let me know?

2007-03-17 14:02:20 · 2 answers · asked by eminem4lifegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a friend do anyone want to be my friend i'm 12 and very lonely but if u want any of my info i won't tell u sorry but i will tell u that my name is Alexis and my fav subject is boys so i'll mostly talk about that anyway want to be friends!!

2007-03-17 14:01:56 · 4 answers · asked by Genea W 1 in Friends

I had an affair with a guy (I'm still married) - do you think it's possible for us to be alone together and for things to remain platonic?

2007-03-17 14:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 14:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She said "yes" but she wants to keep us a secret, what should I do? how can i tell her i dont want to do this?
she says she wants to keep it a secret until shes ready for everyone to know. But when im with her and all my friends, its awkward because i have to act like were just friends, then i dont even feel like were going out, but i really like her and wouldnt want to loose her, what is a compramise that she may be willing to agree with?

2007-03-17 14:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 13:59:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating