is there any chance that my wife could have really been a virgin when we met at 21. she has always told me how she was so sexual as far as her thoughts were concerned as a child growing up. and she is and was always a complete knockout!! and everyone that has ever met her has thought the same thing. is she just saying this for me or could it be true. i don't have any reason to think differently i'm just wondering and it won't change my feelings for her.
2007-03-17 14:06:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it can be true! Especially only at age 21! I know lots of people in their late 20s who still are.
Trust her.
2007-03-17 14:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by TPmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could definitely be true! Just because someone is attractive and is a sexual person does not mean that they can't have the self control to wait for the right person.
Also, in response to 3000gthottie's post, just because a girl doesn't bleed doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin. The hymen can be torn from all sorts of stuff from riding bikes to masturbating.
2007-03-17 21:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by curiousE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well it could be possible that she is telling the truth. some people are very sexual in their mind but never get the chance to share it with people. she shouldn't be only telling you that because she's your wife. basically, she could have been a virgin when you guys met and wanted to save it for the right one
2007-03-17 21:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You say it wont change how you feel about her, then you don't need to know, sometimes its better to leave the past in the past!
A virgin only means not breaking of the hymen, there are other ways to participate with a man, and still be a virgin, fore play, o-ral s- ex, & back door action.
2007-03-17 21:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by 520 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a wee bit confused. Did you two have a sexual relationship when you met? If so, a virgin will bleed from breaking the hymen when first having sexual intercorse. If she didn't bleed on your first experience than she wasn't a virgin.
2007-03-17 21:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by 3000gthottie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a strong possiblity that she mite be a virgin just because her body grew fast and looked like she was havin sex doesnt really mean she was cuz most guls theze days bodies are not sexual but doesnt stop them 4rm usin their mouth.have you and yo gulfriend had sex yet cuz if so when you and her did it did it look like it was hurtin her or by any chance did she bleed or after was she actin like he was sore or walkin wide legged like if not she wasnt a virgin she might just be tellin you that just because she thought you wanted to hear it be wise
2007-03-17 21:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by shanniebabyloveyou 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well even if she might be lying this is what she choices for you to believe...so just respect it because if it isn't true and she is hiding things from you it's because she is ashamed of what she has done with others...she wants you to know that she has only been yours to show you how strong your bond is for her and it may even be true and even if it isn't she is your wife and no one elses so who cares.
2007-03-17 21:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Melina A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How the heck would we know that? Some people are virgins when they get married, but we have no way of knowing if your wife was one. You and she would be the only two who would know that fact.
2007-03-17 21:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
for the benefit of the doubt, i'm going to assume that you got married like 2 years ago, and that is why you are asking this q'. otherwise, your wife should divorce you for still walking around with that crap on you mind.
2007-03-17 21:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True virginity is in YOUR mind. If you do think it is true then it is true. Beyond that it is none of your business.
2007-03-17 21:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋