it is very frustrating becuase i have a huge crush on a guy i met a couple months ago and he's a very nice person. im always thinking about him and wanting to be around him. he talks to me sometimes and i always get the feeling that he likes me too.but everytime i wanna tell him i like him i freeze up and get nervous. so what can i do to make it easier? how do i tell him how i feel without looking like a fool.
2007-03-17 14:12:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try asking yourself if it's easier not knowing how he feels? Or knowing he doesn't like you that way? What I mean is, do you feel better wondering if he likes you? Or would you feel better knowing the truth good or bad? I guess this is the biggest reason why people can't tell their crush how they feel. They don't want to be rejected. Still wondering for ever is not a great way to live either. Or finding out your crush did have feelings for you but, you missed your chance. How would you feel if he finds a girlfriend. Then tells you he had feelings for you before he met her? I think it's much better to find out how that person feels. Good or bad at least you know where you stand. Standing still is never better. I say just tell him.
2007-03-17 14:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in this situation right now, and hearing someone else going through it the only thing I can think of is you have to say how you feel. I know its hard and theres almost a barrier that you have to try and climb but honestly it has to be done. Try and find a really good time to do it, but if you can't you just have to go out and say it.
2007-03-17 21:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brendan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing a note, and tell him you like him so much he makes you nervous so you are having trouble talking to him about how you feel. maybe if you get to know eachother better it will become easier to talk to him - so either be patient and wait for that easiness that will come once you get to know him better - or just write him a note. Im not a lovey dovey person so when it comes to talking about my emotions i suck, so i get cards and write notes to my boyfriend, even now, just to let him know i love him and how i feel - trust me you wont look like a fool! who knows it may turn into a keepsake if the relationship evolves.
2007-03-17 21:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not make the guy tell you???........just flirt with him more often, and maybe hell realise your definitely into him, and im positive hell make the first move, makes life easier dont it?
2007-03-17 21:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him he probably feels the same way
2007-03-17 21:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. Nike.
2007-03-17 21:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋