2007-03-17 14:11:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YEs, but he may not really know. You do understand why he may not really know don't you? He can't really tell for sure at what point he starts to leak. The early fluid can get you pregnant and he doesn't know exactly when that fluid comes out. It is just before the white stuff comes out, but it is almost clear and is before the climax feeling, so it is difficult for him to know if he pulled out soon enough or not. Of course he could pull out real soon and be sure, but that would not feel as good as staying in longer. Better to use a condom or just do oral. How would life be different for you and him if you got pregnant? Better be thinking about that. If you have to have sex make it oral and use toys to simulate intercourse for both of you. Stay away from intercourse unless you are on the pill or you want to have a baby. The condom is not 100% but it is better than pulling out early.
2007-03-17 14:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. He wouldn't want to feel embarrassed when confronted about it when telling the truth so lie to make you and him both feel better. Well, to make you feel better. Use a condom though. It prevents you asking questions like this. All the answers to this question are just going to make you wonder if he got you pregnant because you didn't know if he pulled out or not. Which that's not safe it all. Sperm isn't stupid and it knows where to go. All it takes is a teaspoon of sperm to get pregnant unless there is an infertility problem. But yes, a guy would lie about pulling out on time for more than one reason!
2007-03-17 14:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends a lot on the kind of guy he is.
If you had a mutual agreement that that was what you were going to do for birth control--a really dumb idea in and of itself--then he sure as hell shouldn't have let himself come inside of you. That guy's either such a beginner he doesn't have a clue about how to control himself or he's just a plain, garden variety, selfish *******.
In either case, given the risks to you, he should certainly be man enough to tell you that he wasn't able/willing to keep his part of the bargain--particularly in the age of the morning after pill--although there are certainly ways for you to check if you doubt his word.
To answer your question though, yes: some percentage of men, and I don't know if it's 5% or 75%, would look you right in the eye and lie about it. To me, that adds deceit to the charge of selfish--and you should try to avoid sleeping with pond scum like that.
2007-03-17 14:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by cpslavin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a guy would lie about it. I want you to remember something here though. Sex for guys is like basketball. They always dribble a little bit before they shoot. You can get pregnant off of pre-ejaculation. In order to avoid an unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease, you really should have your guy wear a condom every time. This way you don't have to worry about whether or not he pulls out in time.
2007-03-17 14:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he would, the pull out method is not a safe method of birth control, because if he had ...splouged (for lack of a technical term) within the last couple of days, sperm can still be within his ...tract... and you can get pregnant even if a guy didn't splouge at all when you had sex because of this.
use a condom, it protects from more than just sperm on top of that, if you insist, he'll use it, and if he refuses, think about it, what does that mean? people who don't care about STDs or unwanted pregnancies refuse to use condoms, so the question is, do you care?
2007-03-17 14:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he would. And why are you using the pull out method anyway? Everybody knows it doesn't work. So you are probably pregnant even if he did pull out in time.
2007-03-17 14:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could. Even if he does pull out, and there was no condom or birth control used, the girl still has a chance of being pregnant.
2007-03-17 14:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affirmative
2007-03-17 14:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i imagine a guy would but lets hope he did not.......but i do believe a guy will tell a girl almost anything..........and some women are just out to use guys to so gee i think the world is getting down to thinking of nothing but number 1 thereself...but you will have to pay serious consequences if he did not pull it out in time and you got pregnant..........
2007-03-17 14:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't pull out in time, it's not completely his fault. Next time, keep your legs closed unless he's using a condom.
2007-03-17 14:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋