What Should I Do??

Question

I still really love my ex and he knows i like him but yesterday he asked me to ask out my best friend. Which I did and she said no. I really want to tell him how i feel but i dont know how cause i know he really likes her and hes gonna keep tryin. Then on the pther hand i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and everyday he tells me he still loves me and why do i even love my ex and he's just so stressful. And its all to much right now. What should i do??

Answer 1

A relationship is a two way street. The fact he let you know of his interest in your friend could only mean one of two things. Either 1. He's totally over you or 2. He was trying to see if you'd get jealous in order to determine if you still want to be with him.
My advise is -tell him you have broken up with your current boyfriend and are now free and tell him how you feel about him and ask if he wants to give it another try. Lay your cards out on the table and accept his answer and move on if he says "no". Life is too short for games and uncertainty. Good Luck-I hope it works out well for you!

Answer 2

It sounds like you may have a case of "I want him because he doesn't want me." Think about why you broke up in the first place, are you sure you want to get back into that relationship? If the answer is yes, then you should go ahead and talk to him, but be prepared, you may not get a positive response. At the very least, you should tell him not to make you a go-between for him and your best friend. There is no excuse for him to drag you into that. Don't let him take advantage of your feelings for him, it's not worth your time at all. The best thing to do is probably to step away from the whole situation for a little bit and get your priorities straight, think about what you like and dislike about these two guys and make a decision without worrying about what everyone else wants you to do.

Answer 3

If this is so confusing, then most of this is probably new to you. Human emotions and physical attraction is a very complicated issue. Part of the reason for dating is to learn about human relationships.

Often people are attracted to others who have no interest in them at all. This is a fact of life and you need to learn to deal with it. If you are interested in someone, however, you are better off at least letting your feelings be known.

Make sure that you understand why you are interested in someone. Do you understand each other or are you playing some game? Just because you are attracted to someone or that they are attracted to you does not mean that they want a close relationship with you.

Understand what your choices are before you make them.