he dated my bestfriend for more than a year and he knew this girl before either of us. she's a senior now and he's a junior. me and my bestfriend are both sophomores. after a few months of their break up we started seeing each other then he broke up with me coz he thought he hurt me then we got back together then he broke up with me again coz he said he missed his ex and now he says he wants me back but I wanted proof so he said he needed to grow up before getting back with me again...then someone told me that he called his friend who's now a senior in tears coz he thought ppl saw him as a bad person and he said he's sad coz he wants us (me and my friend) both...my source says he wants her as a friend and me as more than that...but I think he likes this senior as m ore...she is his first girl in his myspace...i noe it shouldn't matter, but who does he want? and should I wait for him to grow up or move on?
2007-03-17 14:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should get your best friend and him, and all go to lunch at the mall. Then make him choose when you both are around. And tell you both to your face who he wants to be with. If it hurts your best friend to much dont do that, but u have to make him decide and if he chooses this other girl. screw him he is not good enough for you.
2007-03-17 14:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go out with someone your best friend liked and dated? And never wait for a guy. Why would you want to wait for someone else to decide what you will do with your own life? Keep your friend, apologize for going out with a guy she was with, and in the future go out with more mature guys that you won't have to wait for.
2007-03-17 21:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this wrong but seriously you won't remember him in five years, just look at yourself in the mirror and say no man is worth this unless I want to marry him, and right now this man is so unstable even as young as you are you don't want to marry this.
You want some one who knows exactly what he wants and knows how to keep what hes got.
don't waste your time on someone who thinks this is great having so many women fighting over him, ps watch John tucker must die. this is right up your ally.
2007-03-17 21:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since ur situation is so complicated, all i can say is just sit back and watch the whole thing play out. don't act too interested in him or the whole situation. i know it might be hard to do but just gotta weather the storm.
2007-03-17 21:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Talaal A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just move on i think he is confused and try to concentrate on other things all the best
2007-03-21 13:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you feel like a pawn being moved around on a chessboard?
move on from the loser!
2007-03-17 21:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by snapper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm... why dont you just ask him.??????????????????? i think you all need to grow up.
2007-03-17 21:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋