She said "yes" but she wants to keep us a secret, what should I do? how can i tell her i dont want to do this?
she says she wants to keep it a secret until shes ready for everyone to know. But when im with her and all my friends, its awkward because i have to act like were just friends, then i dont even feel like were going out, but i really like her and wouldnt want to loose her, what is a compramise that she may be willing to agree with?
2007-03-17 14:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no don't do ANYTHING. just wait for her to get ready. if u try to push it even a little bit, she'll drop teh relationship because even right now ur relationship is delicate. its happened to a lot of my friends. just let her take her time.
2007-03-17 14:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ages would be important. Maybe she really isn't ready for a committed relationship.
Analise yourself to see if there is any reason for this.
Do you get regular hair cuts, shower well every day? So you are always clean and smelling good. Are you teeth sparkling clean, brushing and flossing every day using a good mouthwash? Use hydrogen peroxide to brush with it makes very healthy gums.
Is your mouth healthy so you have no breath odor?
Are you clothes washed and clean and you look the best you can every day? Clean shoes (almost all sports shoes can be washed in the washer, if they need to be cleaned).
Once you have double checked all of these things and are confident that it isn't your appearance. Analise your behaviors. Do not smother her. She may naturally be one of those people that needs room to breath.
Good luck figuring out what to do.
2007-03-17 21:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell her you don't feel comfortable. But I guess you HAVE to wait until she's ready. Because if you force her then she would feel more awkward. Either that or you should tell her that if she really liked you then she wouldn't be uncomfortable letting other people know.
2007-03-17 21:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my friends told her BF to keep it on the down low Bcuz she was embarresed of him, do you think this is Y? if you guys r close enough ask her, if it is a risk you r willing to take
2007-03-17 21:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by kazzy3195 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's somethng seriously wrong if she wants to keep your relationship a secret. i would tell her "later" and move onto to someone who will appreciate you and be proud to be with you. you deserve it.
2007-03-17 21:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings about it and that u shud also hav a rite 2 dcide
2007-03-17 21:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lexine U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋