I had an affair with a guy (I'm still married) - do you think it's possible for us to be alone together and for things to remain platonic?
2007-03-17 14:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No!
2007-03-17 14:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it would be very hard, especially if you still have feelings for him, if you don't maybe. Does your husband know, I mean wouldn't hanging out with him, still be deceiving if your husband never knew about him? I just think it would be stressful for you and him. I mean it's hard alone to remain friends when your in any close relationship and break. With your case, your kinda feeling guilty just seeing this man, because of cheating on your husband if you know what I mean? Maybe not. If you need to talk, you can email me, I'm a girl, btw, not some crazy!
2007-03-17 22:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible for both of you to be friends. If he knew u were married in the beginning of ur relationship and it was mutual on both parts then yes u could be alone together and remain platonic.
2007-03-17 21:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by latina42 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all dont do this and do not put yourself in this situation. Run and do not walk away from this guy and move on with your life and your marriage. Platonic my foot.
2007-03-17 21:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything is possible, however it would be unfair to your husband if you decide to keep seeing this guy. All this hiding around and having to lie - don't you think it will destroy your spirit in the end? You are confusing yourself even more now that you seek to continue this relationship. Why do you need him in your life? Don't you have enough problems to deal with in your marriage?
2007-03-17 21:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably would not be a good idea. It is hard to stop a physical relationship once it starts. It could work but odds are against it.
2007-03-17 21:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by curious74432 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends how much you love your husband and how much you want to bang your friend.if you want to make it work with your husband then there is no reason why you two should be around each other at all
2007-03-17 21:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by TRXCEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably fooled yourself into believing you were just friends before you slept with him. Where did that get you?
2007-03-17 21:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're wanting to keep your marriage together then NO!! Stay away from him!! You'll cave, you already did once so.....
2007-03-17 21:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Incognito 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Theres a thing called "self control"
Use it.
2007-03-17 21:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop!
You done it once, move on and enjoy your current husband.
I will keep it our secret this time:)
2007-03-17 21:04:36 · answer #11 · answered by THE RIGHT CHOICE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋