Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

you made out. I am especially interested in responses from women as pertaining to how you would feel if your husband wanted to put some on your body.
We are separated right now but things are looking up (no pun intended) and have taken a real good turn for the better and I hope before long we are going to be in a situation to be like newlyweds again (we've been married 13 years). I am pretty anxiousand ready to get back together. How would you feel if your hubby wanted to do some things w/whipped cream and chocolate syrup on your body? Would you be insulted/degraded in any way. Not my intention. Just wanting to have a dessert while I have the main course.

2007-03-16 04:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think of it?

Please, only intelligent answers...!

Not "no", "yes", "maybe".

Have you ever had an experience in which intelligence played a favorable role in the situation of ... starting a date...?

Kisses for the chiks and hugs for the guys,


ie

2007-03-16 04:17:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're freshmen in high school. From my perspective she is one of my best friends, but she's get three other girls who are really close to her. We've known eachother for a while, but only got to know eachother this year. Homecoming and Sadie Hawkins.

Neither of us like eachother as more than friends. Neither of us are really interested in dating anyone now either.

What are some things we can do together, and what is appropriate and what is not appropriate for us to do together. We're both gifted students, so we're not interested in anything illegal/what we're not suppossed to do (sex, drugs, alcohol).

2007-03-16 04:17:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My partner goes out friday nights and sunday to go hang out with his mates, we are both still young(20 and 21) and we have a daughter together.
I am very happy to stay with my daughter and I don't like going to pubs or clubs, but he does take our daughter out once a week or so while I stay at home and relax.
This is no problem for me but my family say he should not be hanging out with his mates when he has a family and I should make him stay in all the time when hes not at work.
To me that sounds horrible I am not his mother and I think it is good that he goes out and has fun, if it makes him happy.
My question is would you find it acceptable for your partner to go out with his mates, or do you think my family is right?

2007-03-16 04:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by cigaro19 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am with this girl... which I really love her and she lives in Iowa and I live in Texas... its not that far but still is that a good thing or a bad thing? I just thought I would get other people's perspective and see what they might have to say about it... No we have not met yet but we are working on that right now..

2007-03-16 04:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 04:16:35 · 27 answers · asked by Buzzard 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I guess it's tv for me again. Any other suggestions?

2007-03-16 04:15:45 · 12 answers · asked by Girly girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 04:15:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 04:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by Saraii H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for all guys we have rules for taking a girl as our best friends, and i brok rule number 1. dont fall in love with her. we spent a year being best friens and getting to know everything about eachother and we got really close. even to today, she says no guy, or person makes her feel as safe as she does when im around. i know shes the one i want to marry someday. the problem is, in our first year, we could hardly ever see eachother cuz she had this bf that was insane jealous, after a while we got together, but her mom hates me. she hated me before she met me, she caught us kissing, and that was the final straw for her. she told her never to see me or talk to me again, we still talk, but its been hard, we cant see eachother. we stopped getting a long so well, and we started dating other people, but i want her back, its been a long 10 months without her and im going to try talking to her mom and get her to change her mind? what do i do? what do i say? what if she loves the bf? what then?

2007-03-16 04:14:29 · 15 answers · asked by dandaman3523 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were goin out with a girl and her prom was coming up would you be mad if she were going with another guy. Especially if she had made plans with this guy way before yall got together. Would you break up with her?

2007-03-16 04:14:24 · 19 answers · asked by Pink 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted my question and I just wanted to say If he tells me i'm not togo to the pool by myself or wear shorts when i'm not with him, then he didn't need to be sniffing coke with two girls, or telling that I need to follow his rules because he can get any girl he want and he can brake up with me when ever he wants

He does get on my nerves sometimes but I Love Him

2007-03-16 04:14:16 · 3 answers · asked by Peacen 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is the scenario.....a guy came to my office, worked there for a few weeks, and showed many signs he is interested in me (eg,finding opportunities to talk to me, got very curious about guys who pursue me, said No intensely when i ask is he married, but actual fact, he IS getting married soon)

And before he left, he asked for my contact, and he started contacting me.

People keep in touch because they are already friends, but for him to want to keep in touch with me, just when he started to get to know me, I feel there is more to it. I don't believe that it's not driven by attraction at all.

What do you all say?

2007-03-16 04:13:27 · 3 answers · asked by Dane 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 04:13:18 · 27 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Singles & Dating

I know what type of women this guy likes he likes very small women light complextion and danity. Yes, I like this guy and he likes me, Yes he seriously flirts with me, But I do not fit the above decription I am 50 lbs more coco brown skin color I an be danity at times but mostly fun to be around and I do not pretend. I am a meduim size women big breast medium everything else. And I am younger than he is.He likes women that are older than he is. Why is he crushing on me!

2007-03-16 04:13:15 · 2 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.. so have any of u girls dated guys who left u and then finally came back? how long were they away and was it a sexual/romantic relationship?

2007-03-16 04:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I seem to be able to get more done when I have someone to talk to. But I can't find real people anywhere. Anyone else have this problem?

2007-03-16 04:11:28 · 12 answers · asked by yoyoyo 1 in Friends

she got home yesterday and was crying for something i really care for her but she ran after me with a shotgun. i have to sleep in the living room for my own protection but we do have fun momments. she only gets this way mostly after she gets away from her parents or after talkin to em. they hate me. her dad has tried to kill me 7 times but i always win so i need some advice . i dont care what way you write it bad or good . dont matter if there are curse words. just tell me some darn good advice.????.

2007-03-16 04:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As you get older are you learning to deal and judge your own relationships, or do you get others to do your thinking for you?

2007-03-16 04:11:01 · 5 answers · asked by : 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 04:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by Man U fan 1 in Family

can they enforce this as i already pay some

2007-03-16 04:10:44 · 4 answers · asked by betty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 04:10:35 · 12 answers · asked by im2coolinoregon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm friends with a guy and just resintly he called me and said his parents didn't want me to call him anymore. I felt really bad because he started to cry and then he hung up. does he still like me.?

2007-03-16 04:10:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im a sk8r and i am the lead singer and gutair in our towns best band.i dont do drugs im funny i have a good personallity and dont go around trying 2 get arrested.our skateparks last 7 state compitions ive won all of them (oklahoma). i got alot of money b/c of the band and the sk8 compitions and i dont know if girls like that?

2007-03-16 04:10:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 04:09:55 · 28 answers · asked by jinni 2 in Friends

I'm very sorry this is so long I'm just VERY UPSET and need to let this out so please read!!!!

PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!

I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.

…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.

Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.

I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.

But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.

2007-03-16 04:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jackie R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 04:09:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want it to look too much like a date. thing is i asked him if he wanted to do something over easter (otherwise i wouldnt have seen him for a month or so) and he gave me his number. we work in the same company and about 2 or 3 times a week we are in the same meeting (but other than that i dont c him all week, big company, work in different buildings). the meeting is normally at the end of the day so we (all work people, bout 20) sometimes go to the pub so i have talked to him and we get on really well, and well im afraid if i ask him on a real date he might say no or it goes all wrong and then it will be weird everytime we c each other.
I really dont know what i could ask him out to. And if i find somethign than what do i talk to him about? Its so hard to get a conversation started because i cant ask those simple things like "what do u like doing?" or even "what do u do as a job?" or something like that because i already know those things.
Please help.

2007-03-16 04:09:25 · 1 answers · asked by Finn 3 in Singles & Dating

We met at a festival in Miami FL, we really like each other but we both live about 100 miles away from each other. I live with my mother n i dont want to move away from her. He has his family (his 4 year old son) and all in Miami. He told me he wouldnt mind moving here but again., we just met ( and he has a son that he will bring with him of course but i dont mind the child I love kids ) N i dont really like miami as a place to live for me. what do you think? i What should i do? i have soOOoo many plans to finish that im all confused but i really like him and i would love to start a realationship with him.

HELP!

2007-03-16 04:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by *Ale* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever said something that you really didn't mean? My brother was sitting beside me in lunch when he heard me say "My parents do nothing for me." I was mad that day. Ok, really mad. But the point is that he went and told my parents so now they hate me! They said they are very diappointed in me. they didn't even give me a chance to explain. They just dealt their punishment and that was it. Now I hate my brother. Shouldn't younger siblings mind their own biusness? Is he just looking for a way to make me look bad and him look good? I'm so totally confused and need a good apoligy for my parents. Can you help me out? I'd appreciate it.

2007-03-16 04:09:13 · 9 answers · asked by Ripsi W 2 in Family