We met at a festival in Miami FL, we really like each other but we both live about 100 miles away from each other. I live with my mother n i dont want to move away from her. He has his family (his 4 year old son) and all in Miami. He told me he wouldnt mind moving here but again., we just met ( and he has a son that he will bring with him of course but i dont mind the child I love kids ) N i dont really like miami as a place to live for me. what do you think? i What should i do? i have soOOoo many plans to finish that im all confused but i really like him and i would love to start a realationship with him.
HELP!
2007-03-16 04:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by *Ale* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello!
100???
Thats a lot!!!
Listen, why dont you calm down, ok??
Try to get to know each other better, and you will have to do a weekend based relationship,... a few phone calls during the week, and so on...
You could go one weekend, then the next one he visits you.
After 2 or 3 months, you will now what to do.
To move and change your life just like that its pretty difficult, basically you will be gambling with your life.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 04:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by gigaferz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so he's approx. an hour and a half away. That's a bit far but not impossible. While it's seems as though you both like each other you need to slow down abit with all the plans on who should move where. As you said, you just met. Why don't you get to know each other via e-mails and telephone calls for awhile and try to get together maybe once every two weeks to see if there is really a strong connection between you before you go any further.
Good luck and take it slow.
2007-03-16 04:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by maven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my FI live worlds apart. He lives in CA while I live in the Philippines. We've been having a long distance relationship for about 2 years now. He's only visited me once so far but we're getting married soon.
Let me tell you this, ldr is really tough, it requires an tremendous amount of effort from both parties and its just upto you guys how you deal with it. it's going to be your choice though. if you really want to be together then i'm sure you'll find ways to work it out. the good thing about ldr is that you'll learn to treasure your time together more and value each other than being close together.
hope this helps!
2007-03-16 04:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by c_351073_l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My boyfriend and I did the long distance thing for over 1 year, also I lived 300 miles away, but we still saw each other a lot. Trust me, it makes the relationship stronger and its not as bad as it seems.
2007-03-16 04:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with this many issues preventing you guys being together it seems like perhaps it isnt a good idea. but if you do pursue it just remember that long distance relationships fail if there isnt a time limit and a mutual destination. in other words if you date and say in 6 mons he'll move here, then you'll be fine but if you leave it open ended it wont work out. that's my experience at least.
2007-03-16 04:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just met a man with a child and you are already considering moving in with him? Oh yeah sounds like a fabulous idea if you're wanting material for a country western song.
2007-03-16 04:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to learn about him and getting to know him. Be friends first, if more materializes, your hearts will guide you.
Until then.... he's just a guy.
2007-03-16 04:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by too_hot4words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like miami, then just forget about him/
2007-03-16 04:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone closer
2007-03-16 04:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone closer he is too far away.
2007-03-16 04:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋