So I have always been in drama filled, cheating, jealous and mistrusting relationships. Finally I decided to get out of them I took a 6 month break and then met my neighbour who I was eyeing for the past while. It was a Tuesday when we 1st introduced ourselves to each other and now 6 months later we've spent every night/waking minute with each other. Honestly, I think we have missed 2 nights for flu/cold reasons.
So what I am asking is I feel as though something is missing in this relationship. I dont feel as though my love for him is as strong as it was for my ex. I finally trust him which is a great thing but I interpret that if I trust him I just must not care about him and what he does behind my back. I know he is 100% faithful and I sat on the couch yesterday thinking about the things that I dont like about him and all I could think of was "he is too nice?" I know it sounds ridiculous and stupid. But I feel as though "I know" my love for him is going to die for some reason or another.
I finally have this guy who is trustworthy, genuine, appreciative, attentive, affectionate, loveable, hot, great job, beautfil house etc etc.....so why do I feel as though something is missing?!?! It doesn;t make any sense....
For the first 3 months of our relationship I didnt feel like this at all. I was happy as ever and I cant figure out what could have changed my feelings so fast. I am still attracted to him, still like spending time with him, still enjoy doing nice things for him etc but something is wrong.....Anyone have any suggestions? Thanks so much!
I was thinking it could possibly be caused from the amount of drama that I used to enjoy for some odd reason. In the beginning of our relationship the newness of it was "my drama" and now I dont want to mistake the lack of drama to a lack of love.....but how can I tell...Any suggestions?
2007-03-15
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