Man people, I lost a good friend and boyfriend to the fact I was to clingy and possives. I know it was stupid for acting that way. Is there a way to convince him I'm not like that anymore, and cause him to be with me again. Also, I call him an a******** because, he had a friend who was a women. He is very sensitive to insults.
2007-03-15 05:19:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By your paragraph I would say you are still clingy and possessive. You can convince him, but it'll take some time as a friend and for him to see that. You can't tell him, he must experience it.
2007-03-15 05:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way...and I mean the "only" way to get him back, is to leave him alone. Give him some space for now, do not call him, do not text him, do not have any contact with him for the next 2-3 months. If you happen to bump into him or stuff like that, don't look sad or sappy, just give him a big smile say hi and walk away. Do this for about 2-3 months, and on the 1st week of the 3rd month.. call him up for a lunch date.. say that you just want to catch up....Anyways, you can Email me for the rest of step by step stratedgy. For now, your job is to leave him alone, show him that you are still fabulous without him.
2007-03-15 05:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK wow uh there is a way to show him you aren't crazy anymore and that's to move on and find new people forget about him for a while and work on yourself and then a couple months down the road start talking to him again
and hunny if my man insulted me like you did to your man i would beak up with him only after i broke him so stop being so rude to your men it will help your relationship
2007-03-15 05:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up. The next step after clingy and needy was dumped. For you to try again would add new words- stalking and overly persistent.
2007-03-15 05:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I think you lost that one. The best thing you can do is learn from that mistake. Perhaps you'll find a way to treat your next bf with a little more respect. If I were him, I wouldn't want anything to do with you. Hell, you think I would let some chick tell me who I can and cannot be friends with. Whatever. Learn the lesson, and move on.
2007-03-15 05:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just apologize for calling him that and tell him that you have changed and that you would like a second chance. It shouldn't be that hard because you do only call him your friend and that you both went out, so give it a try. There's only one way to find out.
2007-03-15 05:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by tai&amc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously loved your vegina more than your body and once he used it too much he wanted another one. Too bad slut.
2007-03-15 05:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't seem like you deserve him at all...no one bad-mouths their boyfriend, and a good relationship requires honesty, kindness, and trust. you couldn't trust him, you weren't honest with him, and you definately weren't kind to him. YOUR LOSS!!
2007-03-15 05:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S ALL UP TO HIM IF HE WANTS TO TAKE YOU BACK. TELL HIM THAT YOU MAKE A MISTAKE AND YOU WANT HIM BACK....LEAVE IT UP TO HIM .....DON'T PESSURE HIM. ALSO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HE MAY NOT WANT YOU BACK. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-15 05:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by tatyana17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once an ex, always an ex
2007-03-15 05:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋