can't talk to girls need help?

Question

i'm 17 and a senior and i have a lot of crushes on girls at my school but i can't seem to get the courage to go and talk to them but i want to sooooooo bad someone please help me!!!!!

Answer 1

What have you got to lose? Just talk to them. So what if they don't like you, does that put you in a worse situation? No! If you don't talk to them to begin with you definitly aren't going to be happy. Besides, sometimes I never thought of a guy as attractive until I knew he liked me. Just go for it!

Answer 2

Most people have a fear of rejection, but sometimes there's no reason to be nervous. You can kind of tell if a girl is approachable. So just be relaxed and say hi... talk about something school related at first, and then just let things flow. Girls like guys who have confidence and are secure within themselves. Once you get past that first word, the rest is easy.

Answer 3

i'm in the same situation except with guys...well i used to be until i asked for help...the best thing you can do is to just say hi. that will at least break the ice. joke around with her, ask about homework, just talk. most girls don't care what a guy talks about to her, she's just really flattered that he came up to talk to her. if you really wanna have her hooked on you though...just give her a compliment like, "you have beautiful eyes, or a nice smile, or you're really pretty" and just walk away. after that, she'll will most likely see you as a really nice guy, and come back to talk to you again. girls love compliment and most of the time it's hard to put down a guy who has the guts to say something so flattering to a girl.

Answer 4

First think of something that you're really good at, let's say drawing. Before you go to talk to a girl, draw a really good picture to boost your confidence.

Also, make sure that you look and smell good. A few shots of Axe or Tag could go a long way, make sure your hair is combed, clothes clean, et cetera.

Then find a context. To keep the artist example, let's say the girl goes to the same art class you do. After class, go up to her, and say something like, "Hi, I'm [name]. I saw your horse sketch; it's really good. How long have you been drawing?" And so forth.

Just try and be friendly first. It can't hurt to go slow.

Answer 5

u should just walke up to one if its teh frist time wit ur friends an dsay hi to her, and alone when u see her in teh hall just say a quick hi. finnally when u get courage and figured out soething interesting to say to her u talk to her wit out ur buddies this time and talk maybe ull find ou something else that interests u wit her. then later in teh skool year after u no her alot and she noes u take a chance get ur freinds to ask her if she likes u if its a yes (yeah u) if not an dshe asks y tell them to say no jus aslin we just noticed u guys talk alot now.

Answer 6

just go up them and say hi or something.

i have a problem talking to some of the guys at my school.

Answer 7

I am shy to. Being shy causes us to miss out on some exciting times.
To talk to a girl? Well I remember how the boys came to me. They usually just came up and asked me my name. Or asked for help in home work. Or just asked me out.
If you want to talk to a girl. Just walk up to her and hand her a note saying I am shy. Talk to me. I bet she will!

Answer 8

Ok! Just act like she is one of your bestfriends and just go up to her oneday and ask her how she has been and ask her what she is doin this weekend and then if she dont got no plains ask her to go to the movies with her! Its easy!!