Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

2007-03-15 05:57:24 · 23 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

than going our own seperate ways.
We had sex last night which was great. I want to be clingy and hug him and stuff after but I dont want to get on his nerves.
Should I just keep our distance and make the heart grow fonder as they say?
Tell him last night was awesome or what?

2007-03-15 05:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

Need some advice.. I am a professional 28 year old who requires the use of my laptop to do bills, work, and play some poker once in a while. My boyfriend of over 1 year makes joking comments about my computer usage that make me feel uncomfortable. He tends to suggest that I am flirting with others on Myspace (which I don't use) and secretly emailing other men. However, these joking comments are weekly if not almost daily. I am very conscious of my computer time and I put my laptop away while he is over to give him my undivided attention. This just sparks his comments even more. Last night, he mentioned that a married couple we are friends with share their passwords to their email accounts. He again made me uncomfortable with this request. I am not hiding anything, I mostly get newsletters and sale emails. But something about him accessing my email makes me feel uneasy, but I also feel I should let him because not to would seem that I am keeping something from him. Advice?

2007-03-15 05:57:10 · 12 answers · asked by PaiGowAddict 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother is of 39 yrs is comparing me to my older sis who has manic/bipolar disorder. Telling me that b/c I left 3 abusive husbands & need her help still (just recently got my 3rd divorce after leaving him 4 yrs ago). My mom wasn't even mad at ME when she started on me. She had just got off the phone with my bro who was giving her a hard time. Talking down to her. Yelling at her. I merely said, "He needs to remember who he's talking to, he can be such a male chovanist sometimes!" She went OFF on me! Telling me how I'm NO DIFF FROM MY OLDER SIS...and WHAT does that have to do with MY bro?! She didn't stop there, she verbally lashed out at ME! It was shocking to me! I had come down (2hrs ONE way) to help her w/my grandmas house! She attacked me verbally bashing me. My older sis was left by her hubby for her disorder. She lost it after that. Her daughter was raped while in her care. Her son was almost taken away. He was burned badly at her house. She is neglectful. I am NOTHING like her!

2007-03-15 05:56:50 · 2 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife takes wonderful care of our 18month old son. She does enough laundry so I have enough clothes to wear but is rarely caught up w/the laundry. She does the dishes about 1-2 times a week and straightens up the living room 2-3 times a week. She has tons of stuff that clutters our home and makes it a pig sty. I am not the neatest person either but I think the house should be decent when I get home. She claims she can't do much when she's watching our son. Should I give her a break or should I get on her more about it. I call her sometimes during the day and ask how the dishes are coming and come home to the same mess. She'll clean if I come home from work and start doing it myself because she feels guilty. Should I have to do that just to motivate her?

2007-03-15 05:56:14 · 34 answers · asked by sgersch26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well if a female was named exactly after her mother would she be a junior or what?..........i am conjused will u answer this for me?

2007-03-15 05:56:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a nice normal 25 year old girl and i think im at least decent to look at (ive been know to turn a few heads). ive tried almost every dating website there is (but i didnt pay all the money, i dont feel that desperate yet) and all the guys ive dated over the last 2 years have all been freaks or jerks. i dont get asked out on dates by guys i meet out in the world and when ive tried to ask them out i never got a call for a first date or if there was a first date, i didnt get a second one cuz i didnt put out. where do you find decent guys? i give up.

2007-03-15 05:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by ezrawillow 2 in Singles & Dating

i loved him so much...he also loved me..but now he is saying that he is not interested in me...he insulted me a lot...he played with my feelings...he ditch me... can i slap him in public place(b'coz i think that this is the only way to insult him in front of everyone)... please help me to forget him.... as he said that he only used me and now he is having another affair...what can i do tell me....

2007-03-15 05:55:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know what do guys like to talk about on the phone.Please help me. Thanks

2007-03-15 05:55:20 · 5 answers · asked by jazluvyou 1 in Singles & Dating

almost three months ago i met a lovely guy on here, and we hit it off straight away. i was not looking for a relationship, but it happened, we excchange emails , and then a little while later phone numbers. recently he has said that he loves me and wants to be with me, but we are so far apart, i try to be realistic but i have fallen for him...so my question is ...has anyone else been through this, how did you cope with the distance and did it all work out in the end..thanks in advance.

2007-03-15 05:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by kira s 2 in Singles & Dating

Naughty Nurse? Sexy Cop?

2007-03-15 05:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for over 9 years in the begining it was good but a good 7 to 8 years when we arrgue he thretens divorce, he has given me his ring, thrown his ring at me, he has lied to me, family, his jobs, told me that I am a waste of time, the marriage is a waste of time, that he does not care anymore about anything, he told me that he loves me but he is not in love with me, he has packed up his truck a few times 2 years ago on the way to dinner on our anniversary he told me that I deserved someone better and that I should leave him. He is a diabtic so he has difficulties getting hard! We used to have sex all the time and it as dwendled down to none so far this YEAR the last time we had sex was before Christmas. He truck dives so he is never home he has been home 6 days this year. I work for an airline so he has options to come home and fly for free but he does not do so.
The past two years I have compenplating divorce but I dont want to hurt him am I wrong?

2007-03-15 05:54:06 · 12 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am fairly certain my husband will be leaving me at some point this year. We are working on our marriage, but just in case, I am getting myself prepared as well as I can. Here is my question - I have $14,000 on my own credit cards right now and no college degree. Which would be more important to have accomplished this year if the marriage fails - my debt paid off or at least my associates degree under my belt? I can pay cash for my classes needed, but that would mean nothing but minimum payments on my credit cards.

2007-03-15 05:53:55 · 21 answers · asked by TGB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been split up for just over two weeks.I ended it because he had been doing things to upset me,even though he apologised 100 times,and we decided to maybe get back together in a few months if things were going ok.We were together about a year,and in that time we had one break.During that time,he kissed two girls.Now that we have split up, he keeps telling me he misses and loves me.And after the split,he promised he wouldnt go off with the girls again.But he knocked back one of the girls and is now seeing her best friend behind me and everyone else's backs,and doesnt know everyone knows yet.If he loved me,could he really do this?Anyway, he has said he doesnt want to properly go out with the girl until he knows for sure he has no chance with me.what can i tell him?we decided to stay friends after the split too.

2007-03-15 05:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in need of some good advice. I am engaged and 36 weeks pregnant. The father and I are not getting along at all, alot has to do with the fact that we barely knew eachother when I got pregnant. However, we did fall in love and everything appeared fine. For the past 3 months, we have had some serious arguments that I am having trouble letting go of. My mother and family want him gone, I belive this is so she may have the baby to herself.(She is very controlling) Every one that knows him tells me to get away while I can, Etc.... I know he loves me though. I can tell, he looks at me the way no other has looked, he holds me so gentle when we are alone, and speaks about nothing but the two of us building a life together. However, during our arguments, he kicks me out takes my phone my ring and the car. I cant risk this when I have a young baby in the world in four weeks. I am to see an apt. today that is unbeatable for its condition and price. But I love him... What should I do?

2007-03-15 05:53:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you keep your hair down below?

2007-03-15 05:53:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June and will be having two readings. I got a book with all suggested stuff from the priest, but I was hoping for something slightly different. Though I love the "Love is..." it seems it is read at every wedding. I am leaning towards the "Water to wine" for my other reading because it suits my life (my parents own and live on a vineyard). But that is another standard reading.

Does anyone have any suggestions? It is a Catholic church/ceremony so it has to either be out of the bible (which they prefer) or approved by the church (which is not impossible, but would take time).

Thanks!

2007-03-15 05:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by Just tryin' to help 6 in Weddings

For years I've struggled to put up with it but now its getting too much.She never apologises and tells my children they should learn about my faults(as she sees it) from her.Its upsetting me but also my kids,they feel they're loyaltys split and they just dont want her to keep running me down.Apart from the odd,unpleasant phone call things have almost broken down completely.Dont know whether to keep trying to resolve it or just cut the ties to be free of the hassle and upset. I've never been close to her as she was cold and critical whilst I was growing up,but she's my mum and I have tried really hard.Any help really appreciated.Thanks

2007-03-15 05:52:49 · 29 answers · asked by bungle 2 in Family

I love him very much. He is seperated, but keeps saying there is a small chance he will need to go back for his daughter. We can't spend much time together. But he says he loves me and wants to be with me and marry me someday. I feel powerless to leave. But feel like things just aren't progressing. I trust him and doubt him all at once. And I get bitter and we fight and then he gets angry at me. I have two kids and not much help and emotional support. Having financial difficulties and feel doomed. Think that makes it harder to leave even though he doesn't help with the kids or financially at all. How do I get on with my life?

2007-03-15 05:52:48 · 11 answers · asked by kayaress 3 in Singles & Dating

If so,is it when they are older and what makes them settle down??

2007-03-15 05:52:46 · 19 answers · asked by NATALIE W 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive been attempting to improve situations with a girl i currently like and we are very good friends never the less. I dont want to ruin the friendship if my attempt fails. So far ive started to find out if she is interested but not sure exactly. Its started off by us both just going to libraries at lunch etc and it is always her and me. She randomly moved seats in class today and sat on the table i sit at. Ok not next to me but on the table. I know your probably thinking oooh biggy she sat on the same table etc. But i wanted to know if she obviously wasnt interested she wouldnt have wanted to go with me in her free time and work together etc. I dropped the hint the other day that i liked her but im not sure she picked up that well. I was explaining how i liked a certain someone etc and she was just asking questions such as. whats she like? why do you like her? stuff like that. I was tempted to say it was her but i thought it would be a bad move. Any advice people?

2007-03-15 05:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 05:52:33 · 8 answers · asked by Joey 1 in Singles & Dating

guys, we were planning to get married, but then again my finace's sister announced her engagement days before my finace was supposed to tell his parents..now were stuck because we can't push through with it for one yr, although in chinese belief its 100 days or 1 yr after ryt? is that true or should it be 1 whole yr after?

2007-03-15 05:51:22 · 1 answers · asked by chichababs 1 in Weddings

To explain:

It's father's day here in Spain on Sunday 18th - I ordered my dad a special present a while back, and I have just got an email saying it won't arrive until Mon 19 or Tues 20th...

I don't want my dad to think I forgot about him or anything, how can I let him know we've ordered something special without making it look like a last minute attempt??

Thanx 4 your help!

2007-03-15 05:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by Krissyinthesun 5 in Family

An old man said to me that his mother used to say to him : " Falling in love makes you poet , friendly & clean " .
What's the truth about that ?
Why that happens ?

2007-03-15 05:50:14 · 8 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Singles & Dating

Lots of black girls love me and I can't see why. Please help me out! I am tall with dark eyes, brown hair and I am pretty smart.

2007-03-15 05:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by Desert Punk 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf & I have been having problems all we do is fuss we were engaged but now we are not I really do Love him alot & I want 2 make thing better but he just says that he is confused & does not know what 2 do about our relationship right now any ideas or thoughts on what i should say or what u think he says that he really loves me & he has given up a lot 2 be with me I have 2 so what can I do?

2007-03-15 05:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by CUTIE85 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hurt him really bad...because I was stupid and took him for granted while we were together. I realize that now but it's probably too late. He told me last night that he didn't love me anymore...but I think he's just saying that cause he's trying move on and push his feelings aside. Because then 5 minutes later he goes "I still have feelings for you!"
But he says he could never date me again because he wouldn't be able to trust me. But I would never hurt him again if I was given another chance. I love this guy. I finally am in love with someone. Do you think he'll ever give me another chance?

2007-03-15 05:48:45 · 9 answers · asked by xfallendaysx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is three years older than i am and i don't see that as a big thing, but what i do see as a bif problem is that he is absolutely gorgeous and me not so much!plz help!wot should i do???

2007-03-15 05:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I,m reele worried?

2007-03-15 05:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends