I love him very much. He is seperated, but keeps saying there is a small chance he will need to go back for his daughter. We can't spend much time together. But he says he loves me and wants to be with me and marry me someday. I feel powerless to leave. But feel like things just aren't progressing. I trust him and doubt him all at once. And I get bitter and we fight and then he gets angry at me. I have two kids and not much help and emotional support. Having financial difficulties and feel doomed. Think that makes it harder to leave even though he doesn't help with the kids or financially at all. How do I get on with my life?
2007-03-15 05:52:48 · 11 answers · asked by kayaress 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him don't leave him. Just give him an ultimatum.. If he loves you he will be with you. Goodluck
2007-03-15 05:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, your kids are not his right? Why would he have to be obligated to give you money? Don't the kids have a father?
If he's telling you that he needs to go back for his daughter, that is a bunch of B.S. If he didn't get along with the Girl's mom, or did not love her, there wouldn't be a reconciliation, in other words he's getting back with her too!!!!
Stop wasting your time arguing with someone that clearly doesn't want to be with you. Move on and stop buying into the one day wants to get married, BS... where's the ring? If he cannot or will not provide for you now, he never will.
2007-03-15 06:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel powerless to 'leave'? leave what? are you living with him, staying with him, live near him? if he is in regular, continuous contact with you and he isnt 'leaving' you at the moment...<<
2007-03-15 06:01:16
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hello your one of my contacts feel free to ad me if you like but seems like we have a small similarity here im worried about my relationship too but the thing is you need a father to those children do you not you need a significant other too right well repair your relationship send the kids to day care and just have a relaxed night just you and him tell him how you feel i'm sure evrything will be fine Good Luck
2007-03-16 04:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Big girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa just reading that first line, tell me that you should leave him, hes just going to back anyway, love hurts, truth hurts, but we have to face that facts, i know you love him with all yur heart and soul, but leave, remember its the best for u..... remember you deserve better then that. Get out into the dating world again. good luck girlfriend~!
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Im so sorry, seems like a rough time.
2007-03-15 05:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a no win situation.. just leave him, stop calling or accepting his calls until hes single, theres no such thing as he might need to go back for his daughter. Its called visitation rights.. hes using you..
2007-03-15 05:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by gregory_usa83 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often, love is not enough! That's where divorces come from, not because of insufficient love!
Need is not enough reason to stick around, you are headed for a disappointment.
2007-03-15 05:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason that you should not take council from your emotions. They cloud your judgement and make you do things that are not good for you.
Just go. You will thank yourself later. I promise.
FP
2007-03-15 05:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like Nike....Just do it. Won't be easy, but every day you let him poison you will be more time recovering. I'm divorced. Come on in out of the pain.
2007-03-15 16:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ur gut instinct, that 90% of the time is what will give u ur outcome
2007-03-15 05:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Stunt M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋