We have been split up for just over two weeks.I ended it because he had been doing things to upset me,even though he apologised 100 times,and we decided to maybe get back together in a few months if things were going ok.We were together about a year,and in that time we had one break.During that time,he kissed two girls.Now that we have split up, he keeps telling me he misses and loves me.And after the split,he promised he wouldnt go off with the girls again.But he knocked back one of the girls and is now seeing her best friend behind me and everyone else's backs,and doesnt know everyone knows yet.If he loved me,could he really do this?Anyway, he has said he doesnt want to properly go out with the girl until he knows for sure he has no chance with me.what can i tell him?we decided to stay friends after the split too.
2007-03-15 05:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl! let him be... hes digging his own grave. you broke up with him for a reason... if he really wanted to get back with you he would know that it would hurt you to see him with other girls... find someone else ... believe me... if you thought he was great! you will find someone 100times better.!
2007-03-15 05:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, he doesn't love you nor does he love any of the girls he's dealing with. Guys like this have big egos and unfortunately he's at a point in his life when quantity is more important than quality. You seem like you have your head screwed on pretty tight so cut him loose - if he keeps running around like he is then eventually it may just bite him in the *** and ruin his health - surely you don't want to be a part of that do you? We're talking about STDs and some of them are killlers - I have known too many friends who have died from playing around with too many people and not being cautious. You are healthy right now, in order to keep it that way you need to move on. There was life before him and there will be life after him. Good luck.
2007-03-15 06:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not carry her in charge for what handed off with you ex bf. supply her the income of the doubt except she can provide reason to no longer have faith her. I propose i does not be telling each and every thing and something yet so some distance as you are able to tell she went for the period of the comparable ingredient and additionally you men ought to in all probability improve an exceedingly great friendship because of the fact of it. Your ex is the asshole and additionally you mustn't blame her for what handed off. Like I mentioned, except she can provide a reason to be upset or mad at her... be acquaintances!
2016-10-02 04:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe with all my heart that guys should not commit to one person until they are at least thirty or even older, after they have had time to experiment and play around. Your boyfriend sounds as if he is full of play. Don't let him play you!! He is not ready to commit to one girl and you are going to be hurt if you try to cling to him. What he's telling you is ridiculous, only an excuse. He doesn't need the magic word from you in order for him to decide what he wants. He's fooling around like an excited little boy in a room full of toys. Let him play with his toys while you move on with your life.
2007-03-15 06:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets take a look at this from a different point of view...
SHE broke it off bc...
she is getting upset and hurt in many ways, emotionally, mentally, maybe other?
she is getting used,
she is getting abused.
she is getting lied to,
she is getting cheated on,
he is cheating on the one who he's cheating with..
hes not sure he has a chance with her..
she thinks he is a friend and want to be friends with all
that? HUH?
she thinks this was or is love?
are you kidding
...IT"S NOT EVEN "LIKE"
RUN......NOW... AND NEVER LOOK BACK AND IF YOU TALK TO THIS USER , ABUSER, CHEATER AGAIN THEN YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU GET AND SHOULD HAVE YOUR HEAD EXAMINED!
If you do speak words to him, they should sound something like this.."dont talk to me ever again as long as you live" BYE!" (then walk or run in the other direction..
Do you have a mother or father to talk with? a counselor or adult in whom you can trust to confide in and tell you a few truths and facts of life?
let me be the first to tell you what happened...
you listened to his crap, believed his crap, took his crap, you took your clothes off and he took your "P"ower from you with his "D"eath of your soul...
Now ...
RUN!
go get your life back, have fun, dance, laugh, sing, be free, meet new and good people, stay single for at least 6 months to a year and most of all, get to know yourself..
and if you meet another boy or man, get to know him and date him for at least a year before you do the same things you did with this one...you will never be sorry again
good luck! ;o)
2007-03-15 06:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke it off with him, you shouldn't care. It sounds like you do. Which means you are confused. It also sounds like he is confused. I prescribe that you both go your own merry ways until you realize what you really want out of a relationship.
2007-03-15 05:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by fail r us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is trying to play you. It's a sure bet he will continue to mess around behind your back i you get back together. If he truly loved you, he would not treat you like this.
2007-03-15 05:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Durco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you as a booty call. Obviously. Actions speak louder than words. He says he loves you, but he cheats on you. Either you are really stupid or you just don't care to see the truth.
2007-03-15 05:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by sarah k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a better guy if you want a serious relationship, and dont play games.
if you wanna have sex, do that but dont call this person bf. call him friend.
break ups and get backs... no need
let him go.
this advice will seem a little hard to you but with time you will see what i mean.
2007-03-15 06:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by wichser 200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm
Either A you want to work things out
or b you want to let him go
Kind of hard to work things out on your own huh? He has to compromise also. If he cant do that you are better off finding someone who will.
2007-03-15 05:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋