Boyfriend and I are - taking it slow and trying to work things out other?

Question

than going our own seperate ways.
We had sex last night which was great. I want to be clingy and hug him and stuff after but I dont want to get on his nerves.
Should I just keep our distance and make the heart grow fonder as they say?
Tell him last night was awesome or what?

Answer 1

what is this take it slow..my boyfriend pull that crap in the beggining lets take it slow..i mean i am glad that we took it slow an really got to know each other..but what i relaize with that take it slow crap..i think he was messing with other women while we were taking it slow...so yeah take it slow but also make it know what you expect and want from the relationship..dont just be his booty call etc..keep your eyes open..

Answer 2

I don't understand something, just because you two have made a decision to take it slow to work on some issues shouldn't mean that you if you show him affection he should be irritated by it . .love is love, whether you hit bumps in the road or whether it's smooth sailing. But if you feel he needs more "distance" than yourself at this time, I'd chill. Let him make the moves, and in doing so, that will tell you everything you need to know because people will always do what is important to them. So if you are important to him, he'll find his way back to you -- like I tell my daughter, don't be so eager to always extend yourself, let the man do some work, you're worth the effort right???

Answer 3

Make the heart grow fonder, i know its so hard cause ive been through that. but, i believe its better that way, now that doesnt mean you cant get close once and a while, clingy just on some days, but dont see him everyday, its much greater when u do get to see him then!!!!!
you wont get sick of eachother

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Answer 4

I say take it slower, my boyfriend and I are taking it very slow, we live in different cities but talk on messenger nightly. Yes we have had sex but we are both older than 25, have an ex and children so we have no choice. We have been discussing living together after this comning summer but we are both cautious. being careful doesn't hurt and makes the being together better,

Answer 5

friends with benefits; lucky for him that you are giving away a precious gift of yourself; you should think better of yourself and really try to not give in; what good is it if you feel lousy after wards and can't cuddle etc ; it was awesome b/c it is over; put your energy into yourself now and move on ;Mr. Wonderful can't find you if you are sleeping with Mr. Wrong; I know b/c I am going through this myself after 20 yrs with Mr. Wrong bf who never committed - don't end up like me ; learn from my mistake and run run run

Answer 6

sex is not going 2 make things better 2 make thing better u must evaluate the problem & fix it just keep your disatnce let him chase you i know that you love him but you have 2 be strong & if he says go your seperate ways then do so if its ment 2 be he will come back

Answer 7

if you like him then tell him that last night was great but you just wanna let him know you dont want to be serious if you act like he aint all that to you and you keep your distance and you dont chase him it will make him want you even more and he will be the on chasing you trust me I know from experience the more chasing you do the less he will want you but the more you act like you dont want him the more he will want you.

Answer 8

Having sex is taking it slow? You need to talk and don't get touchy feely right away. Since you did, it would be good to mention how much you enjoyed it.