Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

i am pretty sure my first time is coming soon and i am really really REALLY nervous like i cant even explain it......and i have NO idea what to do......and i get REALLY embarressed by sexual stuff......

were you nervous your first time and did you know what you were doing?

2007-03-15 06:22:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy who i like so much accept there's one problem he is on house arrest. and the only time i see him is at his work or talk to him rarely on the computer. i also have his number but im to scared to call because i got it from his freinds page when he left it as a comment and he's gonna say how'd you get my number? but yea should i just wait till he gets off house arrest and call him and ask him if he wants to kik it or what??

2007-03-15 06:22:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes24)When we first i could tell he was really into me,always wanted me around,introduced me to his family..now he seems more distant.when were together hes very affectionate and attentive,but we dont see each other as often as im used to.Me and my ex saw each other almost everyday.We do live about 30min away from each other,but he doesnt have his licence only i do, which means he doesnt even have to drive to see me. I usually see him once during the week and then we go out and party during the weekend,or we are with his parents. he lives with 2 other guys,so its hard to spend alone time with him.He tells me all the time how much he cares about me and that he has 'really strong feelings' towards me,but don't u think he would want to see me more?I am his first gf in 2 years and i know he's been badly hurt by girls b4, so do u think he's just taking it slow or that he's scared to get too attached, or is he just not that into me??

2007-03-15 06:22:14 · 21 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 14 and i have this major crush on this guy from my church since i was 10 and i dont think he knows...I've even kissed him and he made it seem like nothing. A few times though he has commented me and even stood up for me when my cousin was making fun of me. What should i do, How can i get him to notice me more?

2007-03-15 06:21:49 · 5 answers · asked by babyk_150 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just happy for some reason :D

2007-03-15 06:21:43 · 28 answers · asked by confused aspen 1 in Friends

"i'm terribly sorry for you.
and also, i'm so sad that i can't go to school with you next year:(
hey, i sent you a letter to you yesterday.
i want you to read it very carefully, and i hope you understand how i feel.
i don't want you to forget that i like you, okay?
you will understand what i'm saying when you get my letter.

i pray for you everyday:)
life is good, Mark.
God gives you everything that is perfect for you."

First she is sorry that im sick and then she is sorry I cant go to school with her (I wasn't accepted). Anyway thats not the interesting part. I haven't got the letter yet

2007-03-15 06:21:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Boy have I got a mess on my hands. My husband and I have been together for 12 years and married for 5 1/2. We have a 2 year-old child. We decided to open up our marriage to a 3rd person about 8 months ago. From the begining I was feeling left out. Well now my husband doesn't want our marriage, has moved in w/ this person and has turned into a completely different person. He wants EVERYTHING his way. He told me 5 weeks ago out of the blue he was out of love with me. 2 weeks later I had to ask him to leave our home because of he continued to cheat with our "friend" and was being completely disrespectful and insensitive to me as well. I wasn't perfect in our marriage but I never cheated and was doing anything necessary to try to fix our marriage before bailing on it. Things are starting to get uglier and uglier. We are going to a Marriage Counselor to get along w/ each other for our daughters sake. We have decided on a mediator, because we want to be fair but I need some info on IL law.

2007-03-15 06:21:30 · 5 answers · asked by spammerhammerjammer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 16 male and I slept over my friends house plenty of times and we always get this urge to touch eachother when we are all about to go to sleep. I am not gay but just wondering if anyone else does this. Is it ok?

2007-03-15 06:21:02 · 7 answers · asked by whatupdoe 1 in Friends

Seriously; if you know of one please let me know; I'm desperate. I've already tried Singlesline, Blacktiesingles, Hurrydate; and Match.com.

2007-03-15 06:20:46 · 8 answers · asked by Animediva 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do men ask for women's numbers if they have no intention of ever calling them?

2007-03-15 06:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by nashvillegirl_51 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 06:20:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why would an ex bf - who is apparnatly still hot for u ( and a lil bit visa versa ) why would he send a fake picture of his new wife that is some supermodel.

2007-03-15 06:20:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and live together,recently he got into trouble with the law. I care for him with the kids and 22yrs. of cheating and lies.I want to help him but right away all the pain constantly blocks me so so much its eating me up alive! no counseling or anything has helped me. my conscience says remember what he did 24/7 im tired of being angry all the time..what is that voice that keeps reminding me..wish for it to stop!!!!!!

2007-03-15 06:20:12 · 20 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 06:20:10 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Where can a man go to meet women that are open to some fetishes that may be seen by society as off color, without opening himself to ridicual from the rest of society

2007-03-15 06:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by maxexposure2003 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and live together,recently he got into trouble with the law. I care for him with the kids and 22yrs. of cheating and lies.I want to help him but right away all the pain constantly blocks me so so much its eating me up alive! no counseling or anything has helped me. my conscience says remember what he did 24/7 im tired of being angry all the time..what is that voice that keeps reminding me..wish for it to stop!!!!!!

2007-03-15 06:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 06:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by billy w 1 in Singles & Dating

my girl has used me for the last time, it seems all she ever wants is to mess around at night and then ignore me til the next evening. I feel sooo used!

So tonight after we're done, I'm leaving...

2007-03-15 06:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i also know his middle initial. & b-day. My mother is no help, because she has no useful info. & she doesnt want to get involved with him again.

2007-03-15 06:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by miss121robin 1 in Family

well i thought that it was rude of u to say i am shallow and i have low self esteem......u dont know me at all.....i think that for u to say such negative things about me makes u sound more insecure then i could ever be.....i dont care if u think i am pretty or hott or ugly or fat.....i just wanted OPINIONS.....do u people know what those are??? i know its hard for 12 and 13 year minds to comprehend but ur gonna have to work that out......so next time u certain people feel like being rude take it some where else......i think i am very pretty and i know i have a great personality....so if that is a low self esteem then i am crazy

2007-03-15 06:19:17 · 29 answers · asked by ..cHeRi.. 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 06:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by kareema i 1 in Friends

i turned 16 less than a month ago, and i have been going out with this dude for almost 4months now. i am not the sexual kind at all, but he really is and has been wanting it for a while. in a way i feel like i am ready, but then again i am very hesitant. One reason is that i have no idea what i am doing and it scares me.

i am also one of those people that are toooo nice and dont like to disappoint people or make them mad and so i HONESTLY really dont think i would be able to tell him im not ready if we are in the middle of something. i dont know what to do.

so i was just curious about the age that others have lost their virginity??

2007-03-15 06:18:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I thought that my ex and I had a very good relationship. We did everything togther and some. When it came to sex it was the best so I thought. I came to find out that he cheated on me. I did everything he wanted and some. The only thing that I couldn’t do was 3somes. Not cz I didn’t want to try it, but cz our relationship was not strong enough.
I don’t regret it, I just wander what I did wrong. I have asked him, he says it was him not me. I wish he would just tell me so that I won’t make the same mistake.
Can anyone give me any advice??

2007-03-15 06:17:36 · 9 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Singles & Dating

Our one year anniversary is coming up & I'm at a loss of what to do. We've both been married before but he has never had a one year anniversary. He acts like the anniversary is no big deal. I just want him to realize how much he means to me and how our 1st anniversary IS a big deal to me. We have a 4 month old son thrown into the mix too, so we've been tired and romance has been a little scarce. But don't get me wrong we're happy in our marriage and with our child.
Here's another thing, money is tight right now, we're moving the week after our anniversary, & we're starting a business, so tension is already high and we're watching every penny. When I asked him if we could do gifts, he said he wasn't sure. When I asked him point blank what he'd like to do he said "maybe just go out for dinner".
I guess my question is: How can I make him realize that our anniversary means something to me, & that it should to him? Also what gift should I get him with out having much $$$ to spend?
Thnx

2007-03-15 06:17:31 · 3 answers · asked by JennieDee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A month ago when I came back home she suddenly asked me for smooth separation (divorce). She wants to marry one of her old boy friend. We are married since two years. Before marry me she had told me about her boy friend. She says love me but love him more. Actually he is richer than me. She says I can be her good friend. Mentally she has no problem and there are no signs of lust for money or sex she has. What is the reason behind this all? Please suggest.

2007-03-15 06:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anoop S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If myself and my partner decided together to have sex with other people on our own, that is if i slept with someone without her and she did the same but we both decided it was ok, would it in the long term work. i have heard that the fantasy and the fact are two different things and that many people have misjudged their feelings towards this kind of thing and ended up hating or resenting each other?

2007-03-15 06:17:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

any ideas on how i can get anyguys to like me?????

2007-03-15 06:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Clicking this link below will help to answer this question. Also, last year after I had gotten her a card and some candy for her 16th birthday (less than I wanted to get her, but it was to avoid doing too much and scaring her off), I heard from one of her friends a week later that she said I give her too much power.
So, I wonder if I should pretend to have forgotten her birthday.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An00myuQNmvOxhk1NuqZ.nDsy6IX?qid=20070315061427AAzfjcG

2007-03-15 06:17:02 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with this guy (this is the second time) and i really dont like him any more..... last time i broke up with him because he was being weird and getting in way to much trouble. I dont want to sound like the bad person when i break up with him so i really want him to break up with me
i am being a u know what
i dont hug or kiss him anymore and when he tries to hug or kiss me i just turn my head or eep waling. I really want to still be his friend though. what should i do ????..................... i would really like him to break up with me asap...

thank you
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2007-03-15 06:16:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband of 5+ yrs and I have 2 kids together (6 and 3 mos). For the past 5+ years we have constantly fought about me going out with my friends. I am, and have been since before we met, a social butterfly. He is a social recluse. I like going to bars with my friends and he likes staying home. I don't expect him to go out with me if he doesn't want to but he expects me to give up my social life and stay home with him all the time. He says it's not fair to him that I get to go out and have a good time and he has to stay home by himself or with the kids. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I go out every weekend. We're talking once or twice a month. He puts guilt trips on me, turns my 6 y/o daughter against me, and treats me like crap as soon as I mention making plans for the weekend.

2007-03-15 06:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Marriage & Divorce