i am pretty sure my first time is coming soon and i am really really REALLY nervous like i cant even explain it......and i have NO idea what to do......and i get REALLY embarressed by sexual stuff......
were you nervous your first time and did you know what you were doing?
2007-03-15 06:22:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just wish I had kept myself for someone who loved me, Not long after i got dumped and I thought I was so in love at the time.
2007-03-15 06:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! I was nervous, and thinking to myself, I am really going through with this, oh my gosh, I can't believe this is happening to me, and with this fine a@# person. I was a hysterical reck!! He is very popular in my town, and after the first time, we continued to have sex for 8 years. Not to many people enjoyed their first time, and can actually say that they had sex with them 8 years straight!! Well, my advice to you is to just relax and make sure it is with someone that you can trust to look at you and won't make awkward jokes while the pulling clothes off is going on. Just take your time, and remember this, once you pop, you can't stop. Enjoy being a virgin...because when you give it up, you will crave it like a late night snack. LOL!!! I do alllllllllll the time! Especially when I see my first partner....with his sexy self. OOOHHHHH, one other thing, it's gonna sting a little, and afterwards you will have some bleeding....not that much though, so don't get to alarmed. It's called making your cherry pop!! Go figure where they got that termanology!! But, it's very pleasing, and releases a lot of pressure that you may have. JUST BE CAREFUL!!! PLEASE!!! AND PROTECT YOURSELF!!! And enjoy the wonderful world of Sex!! JUST DON'T RUSH IT!!
2007-03-15 13:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're as nervous as you say you are, then its obvious that you're not ready. i dont say this to be condescending in anyway at all, but sex is something that should not stress you out. it should never be planned, and you should never feel obligated to do anything with anyone. if there is anything i have learned about sex through experience and friends, its that waiting isnt that bad. most people that i talk to (16 17 and 18 yr olds) wish they would have waited for the right time. though i know i can not make you not have sex, i can just tell you this: your body is a temple, and it is to be treated as such, your viginity is not to be given to just anyone, it takes many months and oftebn years to know if someone is the right one. please just realize that once its gone, you cant get it back. be safe.
2007-03-15 13:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by candi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the exact same position as you, well not exact i dont really get embarassed but i am worried beyond belief and doesnt help that my bf is older and has had alot more experience than me. I have to compete and live up to expectations..****. All i have been told so far is just to relax and enjoy it, lay there and look at him, just let things happen.....not very useful but thats all i seem to be told. Anyway i just wanted to let you know, you're not the only one who is going through it there is someone else as worried as you about it this very second.....ME!
Good luck anyways, i hope it goes well =)
2007-03-15 13:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to wait, unless you are to marry this man. from someone that didn't, make this special. really. it is an amazing experience. it will all happen on its own, but do think about if you were to get pregnant, would your partner stand beside you 100% of the way. would he be a dad to your child, not just the birth father. just take into consideration all the risks. be safe. that's #1. make sure birth control is present.
2007-03-15 13:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one knows what they're doing their first time. Just make sure ur ready and make sure he's the right guy. If it's right everything should go smoothly.
2007-03-15 13:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is going to sound pathetic but the guy you going to lose your virginity to you`ll never forget and it will take alot to stop loving him my first time was really painfull but i really thaught the guy i lost it to was really a great guy but now two years later hes slept with 2 of my friends taking both of thier virginitys i dont think its right. as for you dont be embarrased it is going to be uncomfotable for the first time but keep safe please and use protection you dont want to be getting pregnant.
2007-03-15 13:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by aimz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl watch Cinemax or Skinemax at night. You'll get the idea.
2007-03-15 13:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i had no idea all i knew is what i had herd from my friends
2007-03-15 13:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋