i have been going out with this guy (this is the second time) and i really dont like him any more..... last time i broke up with him because he was being weird and getting in way to much trouble. I dont want to sound like the bad person when i break up with him so i really want him to break up with me
i am being a u know what
i dont hug or kiss him anymore and when he tries to hug or kiss me i just turn my head or eep waling. I really want to still be his friend though. what should i do ????..................... i would really like him to break up with me asap...
thank you
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2007-03-15 06:16:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what, be straight up, don't punk out. Honesty is always the best policy and if he's blowing you that much that you don't want to be with him, tell him. Don't keep blowing him off everytime he wants to kiss and hug you, people will respect you more EVEN if they don't like or agree with your decision when you're honest with them. I'd rather someone tell me they aren't feeling me and it's not going to work than treat me nasty and hope I break up with them first.
2007-03-15 06:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe instead of being childish about the situation try telling him the truth about how you feel....that your feelings for him are not the same and you dont want to hurt him in the long run and you would really like to be friends still...if he cant respect the way you feel when your being mature about the issue then you dont really need him as a friend...good luck!
2007-03-15 13:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play games it makes it much worse than it has to be and it gives you a bad name and really for what? just tell the guy. if your old enough to date your old enough to tell the truth right? tell him you like him and would like to be his friend but you don't want to date him anymore, sorry for the way you have been acting you were very immature you didn't know how to handle the situation. and you apologize for that. leave it at that you look good he feels ok you possibly can remain friends. it's the right thing to do.
2007-03-15 13:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. If he really appreciates you, he should understand. Tell him what you are having troubles with and cannot stand some things about him in a girlfriend's point of view, but do still wanna be friends.
he really will understand, and if he doesn't, he's not even worth being friends with so just forget about him.
2007-03-15 13:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by jeri__ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snog one of his mates? If you don't want to do they then try not washing for a few days
2007-03-15 13:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
justdump him
2007-03-15 13:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by stupidblond94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋