I thought that my ex and I had a very good relationship. We did everything togther and some. When it came to sex it was the best so I thought. I came to find out that he cheated on me. I did everything he wanted and some. The only thing that I couldn’t do was 3somes. Not cz I didn’t want to try it, but cz our relationship was not strong enough.
I don’t regret it, I just wander what I did wrong. I have asked him, he says it was him not me. I wish he would just tell me so that I won’t make the same mistake.
Can anyone give me any advice??
2007-03-15 06:17:36 · 9 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you didn't do anything wrong, and he's really thinking with his manparts. Do what you must to get back on an even keel in life and go after someone less phallicly-oriented.
2007-03-15 06:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nathan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes no one is to blame and a relationship just fizzles, or maybe the two people are looking for different things and failed to communicate that to each other.
Don't be so quick to blame yourself.
2007-03-15 13:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by puckbunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame yourself for his F*ck ups.
Something obviously went wrong, he didn't respect you as his partner. Crying over the spilt milk is not going to help you. Move on girl.
2007-03-15 13:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by ?l??????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. Your ex is a selfish, self centerd PIG. Stay the way you are, you'll find true love.
2007-03-15 13:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by marisia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and someday you will find someone who is happy with you just the way you are.
2007-03-15 13:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by maxexposure2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with someone who is cheating on you?... do yourself a favor and forget this guy, and get with someone who will appreciate your sexuality...
2007-03-15 13:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by ragefury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said it does sound as if the problem is with him and not you.
2007-03-15 13:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people just cheat.....most times it no real reason for it
2007-03-15 13:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by da_last_donpapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self confidence .. and find your own way slowly and steadily .. don't look at that past !!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 13:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by goldeneat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋