A month ago when I came back home she suddenly asked me for smooth separation (divorce). She wants to marry one of her old boy friend. We are married since two years. Before marry me she had told me about her boy friend. She says love me but love him more. Actually he is richer than me. She says I can be her good friend. Mentally she has no problem and there are no signs of lust for money or sex she has. What is the reason behind this all? Please suggest.
2007-03-15 06:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anoop S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She feels like she's setting you free because she's in love with this man, I think you should just let her go because if she stays with you and is not happy, you won't be happy either.
It's unhealthy. Just move on and find another
2007-03-15 06:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Iluvhim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a rebound, she never had the intention of you being the ONE in the first place. Look at it this way at least you know and can Begin to heal and regroup yourself. Please don't do the same thin she did, before you start dating again make sure you are ready and remember that was just one person.
2007-03-15 06:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by suidolem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you, she loves the other guy more. Why cant you believe her. And if she is lying...who cares, why would you want to spend your life with a person that cant keep thier vows. She is doing this to you, she will do this to him. Be happy you didnt waste more than 2 years with her.
2007-03-15 06:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are the backup guy. Now that old boy friend becomes available, you are out. Please move on with your life without her.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 06:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex divorced me for another woman too. its tough to know why but im sorry for what u r going thorugh, and your going to be fine. u will have a fine life wthout her.
2007-03-15 06:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's doing it for the money. that's why she 'loves' him more than you. she's a gold digger. you should not walk towards the divorce...run towards it. and protect your assests.
2007-03-15 07:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? ok you have a reason to act like a madman, carry on
2007-03-15 06:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your wife already told you.... she loves him more.
2007-03-15 06:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋