2007-03-15 06:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by billy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must just love her as a friend. Communicate with her or you will drown.
2007-03-15 06:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by JoelMacDad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. Yes, she might be offended but what are you going to do? You can't just, say your not in the mood all the time.
Tell her that you aren't physically attracted to her, and maybe consider changing her appearance a little bit. No, I do not mea "plastic surgery" changes but some change in her fashion, or going on a diet, or change in hairstyle!
I am a girl, but my frined and her bf had lots of improvements since she lost her weight and got her hair done. Yeah, she became a totally different person on the outside so ... that explains it
The best thing you can do is just to tell her what you actually feel, but remember to tell her that you love her inner beauties no matter what you may be feeling about her on the outside or whatever.
Hope this was an okay answer
jerizz
2007-03-15 06:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by jeri__ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know you are not attracted to her, and you feel like you never will be physically attracted to her, you really ought to break up with her and try to stay friends... you may hear that stuff about finding her inner beauty and all that from someone, but if you want a relationship that will last through to marriage, there has to be some kind of physical attraction there, or else not only you but your partner will be miserable...
2007-03-15 06:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by ragefury 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a difficult issue. The physical part is necessary for a long term relationship to last. Otherwise you will cheat in a year or so. You cant really physically change her much so I would say the relationship is doomed.
2007-03-15 06:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate what you call love......
Have you ever heard the expression, love is blind?
Deep down, is it you that doesn't have a physical attraction, or the fact that you don't want your friends to wonder why you are with an unattractive mate?
Maybe you need to stop being shallow.
2007-03-15 06:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't NEED physical attraction, but if it really bothers you, you could ask one of your friends who's a girl and ask her to give your girlfriend a makeover.
2007-03-15 06:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know why you are not attracted to her, such as hair color or clothing or something. That can be changed
2007-03-15 06:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to work out, get some breast implants, new cloths or just break it off, cause you might cheat on her later on yeah?
2007-03-15 06:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dunn luv her but luv her characteristics! u see her as a gf but actually only as a bestfren.if i were u...talk it out.tats e best way!
2007-03-15 06:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by aw_farid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋