Me and this boy is talking. Everyone knows that we talk because he is all over my Mysopace. Being that I am still in school, I checked his myspace and found out that she was talking to two othre girls on Myspace and one of the go to my school. He told me my eyes were playing tricks on me when I asked him about it. And now he sys he is going to be mad at me forever . Should I call it quits or stay with him. I have true love for him. And I dont want us to break up but should I??
2007-03-15 05:22:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Without trust, all relationships are doomed. Let him be mad and move on - neither of you are mature enough to have good relationships anyway.
2007-03-15 05:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he's your boyfriend because you guys talk? First of all, a good boyfriend dont have to deny anything because if he knows he didnt do anything wrong, he doesnt have to deny it. Secondly, talkin a lot on myspace doesnt mean it's a good relationship. Myspace is for friends not boyfriends and girlfriends writing multiple comments on a little small blog. I assumed you're a very young girl who doesnt know what love is. I say you should really get to know this guy first before being serious with him.
2007-03-15 12:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by epicwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being disrespectful of your feelings when he told you "your eyes are playing tricks on you". His way of controlling you is by saying he will be mad at you forever. You say you feel true love for him, yet he appears not to feel the same for you. Sometimes we can love someone for all the wrong reasons, I feel this is the case with you. Really look hard at what he says and what he does and then ask yourself if you really love him. Or else, I am afraid you will be headed for heartache with this guy.
2007-03-15 12:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him plan and simple. he has the upper hand right now because you are chasing him. if he is like most guys, once you are not available he will want you back. by that time though you probably wont want him anyway.
really though the point is that you shouldnt settle for a guy who is obviously messing around. now he may not be cheating on you, but if he isnt willing to be sensitive to your needs now, he wont be in the future. dont start off the potential relationship with this type of dynamic because it will follow you until you break up. if you want him to treat you differently, you need to demand it. if he doesnt, then you should drop him. regardless of how much love you have for him, all that is pointless if he doesnt love you back.
2007-03-15 12:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,if he's going to be mad at you over this it's not worth it.Your still in school you have your whole like ahead of you.If you love someone set them free if they come back to you,their yours.He shouldn't be upset with you over that.But if you know he is talking to two other girls and tells you your eyes are playing tricks on you shouldn't that tell you something.You have to be friends with someone first, before you can love them.Give it time and see what happens,good luck to you.
2007-03-15 12:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Joni C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are crazy us guys we are going to talk to a anther girl but not have a realtionship with them is just someone else to talk to that is not a boy chill
2007-03-15 12:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by ajz adivice corner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-15 12:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by zoomboy16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure, he is not talking to the other girls? i f he is dam him u can do much better
2007-03-15 12:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by sweet84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should break up with him
2007-03-15 12:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋