Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I was at college and doing well I had been accepted into Uni. I was workin p/time & things were ok, then my partner got made redundant & then at the same time we lost our house!
So we had to move areas my partner got a job in Essex & so we moved.

We have been here about 2 months now. I got a Job working for a Gym which I was really enjoying, the team was great & I had fun! My partner wanted me to leave as he was not happy with all the males that go in and out of Gyms and said he was unhappy and so i left! I then started another job but I got rushed into Hospital with a suspected Bloodclot on my first day & had to spend 3 days in hospital!

Im fine now but since coming out of hospital I have not returned to work, I have been to Interviews & every agency has my CV and its going really well, I have made it to a 2nd Interview for a really good job but my partner is not talking to me because we have no money and he says its my fault as Im not working but I am trying so hard!!

2007-03-13 21:11:32 · 19 answers · asked by kirsty m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 21:09:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with truly the most beautifull girl In the world. I have yet to meet her and in all honesty Im not going to be influenced in any way but one that is positive in anything that is said on this topic. My love and I have been together for almost two years now and every day we spend a good minimum of 2 hours a day talking. even though were so far apart we even sleep together and I know her so well it scares me. There is so much communication between us its amazing and it astounds me how close we can feel and we havent even met yet. im About to buy some tickets to meet her very soon and I am sure its going to be the best experiance of my life. weve gone through some incredably rough times and weve come to learn its best to go through it instead of resisting it because at the end theres a rush of how much we can feel each others love afterwards. She is so beautifull and she has made me feel so much better than I thought I ever could. after all of this what is your opinion

2007-03-13 21:09:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have registered in matrimony as a free member & few days back a guy who was also a free member expressed interest in my profile many times, he was also a free member, i accepted him all the time, but then we were not able to write to each other so we stopped expressing interest. But now he again expressed interest & this time his address was written there in his profile. I want to know that what should i do now? I

2007-03-13 21:09:20 · 15 answers · asked by Ashwini 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 21:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is paying his ex alot of maney for child support, and the ex is very demanding on this sshe treats with talking to her lawyer if the check is 2 days late (we live on Germany and se on the states so it takes a while somethimes) anyways we think is too much money, enough to pay the rent of a house and besides she is got a bf, and is none of my bussines but what kind of guy he is, she got to keep everything when my hubby divorced her and this guy is living on the house using all this stuff, anyways thats not part of the cuestion, what i want to know is there any way that he can pey less child support ? we have 1 child together and 2 of my previous relaton, and we dont even spend the same amount of money he sends her in all 3 kids, i just think is unfair because he doesn't even get to see the kid, and to her daddy is another guy and not my hubby, someone that is probably living of the child dupport my husband pays

2007-03-13 21:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend just opened up about a month ago about a fetish that he has always had...he LOVES to be sat on by girls on his stomach and chest but mostly stomach...he says he just loves how the weight of a girl feels on him....i havent done this to him yet b/c im scared im going to hurt him.....help me girls tell me how u would go about this if ur b/f had this fetish.....i mean do u think there is a chance i could like doing this to him b/c then it would make both of us happy

2007-03-13 21:03:47 · 6 answers · asked by kait a 1 in Singles & Dating

is neat, intelligent and act confident will you laugh at him?or think that it doesn't suit him?

2007-03-13 21:03:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like when we are out he start talking to some girl walking by

2007-03-13 21:00:22 · 25 answers · asked by madom_aisha 1 in Singles & Dating

will the guy realize I dressed up to see him?

2007-03-13 21:00:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What incentive is there in the 21st century for a man to get married? Is marriage compatible with todays society? Please tell. Thanks :-)

2007-03-13 20:59:21 · 15 answers · asked by Dave..... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago b/c i moved away for college and he wanted me to have fun and enjoy my college life. Now....he continues to text me and tell me he misses me, loves me etc. but refuses to have sex with me (says he has to be good). do you think he sees a future with me? im so confused b/c i still love him so much but just always act friendly with him. from these actions..if he is still saying this to

2007-03-13 20:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 20:56:26 · 15 answers · asked by jigar0012000 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok 2 of my best friends in the world have feelings for me, they are very distant but we feel close as we chat everyday. They both know now they both have feelings for me. One is male and the other is femae and I'm Bi so it's ok.

I know it's up to me to decide but what things can I thnk about, questions to ask along the way. I have feelings for both really and it's like choosing over something I can do, :(

2007-03-13 20:55:56 · 19 answers · asked by FuturisticKid 3 in Friends

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 6 months after I left for college but have remained friends (he broke up with me b/c he couldn't handle the long distance and I am also seven years younger.) Its been 2 1/2 years and he continues to call me every two weeks or so, send me texts saying he misses me etc. He use to want to get sexual with me when I came to visit but now, for the first time ever..he said he has to be good and the sex is "weird" because we do it and then don't talk for awhile. tells me he loves me, misses me, but has to be good. What does this mean? he says doesn't love anyone else and texts me all the time saying he misses me etc. . do you think he wants me for the future and doesnt want to ruin it? does this show respect? what do you think? he changed his behavior after he thought he hurt me by being too busy to see me a couple time when i came home to visit. does he see me for the future

2007-03-13 20:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

well most know my boyfriend died what do i do not to let this get to me i cant even eat talk or anyting i had to use spell check cause i am so depressed please dont say let it out but i dont care something that can make me happy even if you say will u go out with me but if you do give a description of yourself but i need to get over him

2007-03-13 20:51:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex has just asked me to catch up for a drink. i really want to stay friends with him. how do i nicely let him know i am seeing someone else?

2007-03-13 20:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by jademlly 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom wears sweats, a sweatshirt, her hair in a bun, socks and an old pair of slippers

She drive a 92 Crown Victioria

Im so embarrased when she comes to pick me up or drop me off or when someone says I met your mom this weekend! What do I do I talked to her yet she says that she doesn't have enough money or doesn't have the time. She always says my dad died why should she look nice! Hello social suicide!!!!

2007-03-13 20:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to teach a frnd a lesson who has just used me and now when she have some thing to do she forgot me completely.
She calls me her best frnd it means I have given her that what a best frnd gives but I call her a selfish frnd bcoz she has just taken from me but I didnt get anything from her.

I want to teach her lesson. Just want to make her realise that she is wrong so plz tell me what to do.

2007-03-13 20:49:30 · 22 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 20:49:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is 2 1/2 years a long time to still tell your EX you love her after you broke up with her?
My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago b/c i moved away for college and he wanted me to have fun and enjoy my college life. Now....he continues to text me and tell me he misses me, loves me etc. but refuses to have sex with me (says he has to be good). do you think he sees a future with me? im so confused b/c i still love him so much but just always act friendly with him. from these actions..if he is still saying this to

2007-03-13 20:48:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

april will be my first year married to my husband.

ive noticed lately that he hasnt really been wanting to have sex. i have been doing favors for him and i have been giving it to him when he is 'in the mood.'

i am 23 and highly sexual and its like he doesnt want to do anything with me anymore. i love him dearly but i NEED sex too. i like sex throughout the day and especially at night, but he says he is tired (even when he is off work) all the time. he says he isn't a 'night person'!? its kind of causing me to please myself more, and desire a sexual realtionship with someone on the side. i know cheating in marriage is wrong but he is pushing me away.

please give me advice.

2007-03-13 20:48:20 · 15 answers · asked by Queenly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Say that u r a boy with a elder sister .........
1 of your best friend is going out with her ... How should u behave with him???

2007-03-13 20:44:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Who can give me my astroly especially about my marriage life?
Date of Birth 31/07/1975
Time 11.30p.m
Place: Malacca, Malaysia

2007-03-13 20:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by Larisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 20:40:30 · 18 answers · asked by fear 1 in Friends

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, asking me to dance, coming outside when I was..etc

She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her in 5 days as i am busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer

What the hell went on?

2007-03-13 20:39:14 · 12 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i know if my girlfreind really loves me i dont think she does i dont know but for some reason i have a feeling that shes either cheating on me or probably talkin to some other guy(s) she sometimes thinks that i am cheating on her with some other girl but i am not i keep telling her but she doesnt believe me!! sometimes she waits until i say i love you to say i love you to me .i mean i love her so much !! very much what should i do i live in texas and she lives in las vegas and i am gonna see her in the summer! :(

2007-03-13 20:37:17 · 7 answers · asked by The CEO of Yahoo Answers! © 4 in Singles & Dating

of one year who i love. over fairly trivial things. were now back together

if you were him would you feel apprehensive about the relationship

2007-03-13 20:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by maraesa1000 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 20:35:17 · 18 answers · asked by SD 1 in Singles & Dating

he or she has a beer belly , but he or she is skinny. is that unattractive.

2007-03-13 20:34:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating