We met on the job, my brother had gotten me the job and introduced me to her. He had told me about her (she was 22 at the time) that she had slept with a 40-year old fat boss of ours at a company party. i had taken it for what it was worth as he said he was "pretty sure" that it happened, of course she denied it, and the boss denied it as he was married. so after lots of drilling about that, i ended believing that she really didn't do it, as my brother admitted that he wasn't positive.
to make the story short, it ended up coming between my brother and i (we no longer talk).
about two months after our wedding, we had a fight, and she tells me the truth. She had a month long affair with him.
i don't know if i can trust her anymore, she has lied to me for so long about it. she obviously doesn't treat sex, and marriage the same way i do, or at least didn't. i don't know how to deal with this, i love my wife, but this haunts me like crazy...any serious advice is appreciated.
2007-03-13
21:18:02
·
18 answers
·
asked by
icantremember854
1
in
Marriage & Divorce