I met this gal we fell in love at the first sight she was a drug addict and she even had a baby from her previous relation I overlooked everything all her ex boy friends where thugs and gangster she is same old as me but she is still in school barely completing her bachelors and I hv done with my masters working for fortune 500 company we broke up sometime back because she lost the passion and I told her we cant go further now all of a sudden she wants to start all over again but after breaking up with her I havent been in a relation but she had been in a couple of relation apart from tht she being a drug addict alcoholic aimless life is in the back of my head but I still like her wht shud I do? do u think she might just be rebounding back
2007-03-13 21:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by rock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might not want to hear this, but don't walk away from her....RUN! She is trouble in my opinion.
2007-03-13 21:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she needs help.
Maybe it will b better 4 her to go to a doctors, make her self better and stronger, and then look for a relationship.
This kind of people have psychological problems that they need time and treatment , so they can be strong, mentally and healthy.
Tell her who u fell, and if she is really in love with u then, she will understand that this is 4 her best, and that u will be next 2 her 2 face all that she needs.
She has 2 think first her child, and then a relationship.
First take care and finish with the drugs and the alcohol problem, and then a relationship.
I really hoe all the best.
She will need load's of love and time.
2007-03-13 21:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with her. All that's going to happen is that she's going to latch on to you and use you like a leech uses blood. She's probably noticed that you're in your master's, which means a good job that pays well is not too far off, which means a free ride for someone else.
Even if that isn't the case, you don't want a girl like that in your life at all. Bad habits are extremely contagious, especially if it's someone you love and respect with the habits.
Dump her before you get hooked on her and get into trouble. Find a nice girl who's worthy of you. (and learn to type while you're at it)
2007-03-13 21:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to know why we love someone...but if you do love her and think she is the one then you will have to see beyond her past. Can you see a future with her? if you can, then it will be good to sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk. I am not sure what she has been through but it did not sound like she has a rosy past. Maybe that's a reason why she is drifting and aimless because she is not found that one reason to anchor herself yet. Find out what she really wants for herself and maybe then you can unlock that mystery - if she is the one for you. good luck!
2007-03-13 22:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by labrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drug addicts are users, they use drugs and people to get what they want. Unless you want a life of misery then stay well away. She's still young and she will continue to 'use' for a long time yet.
2007-03-13 21:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you go back with her you are going to suffer a lot of heartache.i know its easy to say,im 50 now ive had my share of it.tell her if she wants you to get help and sort herself out,im sure youd do it for her.can you live knowing her past ive had probs doing that.you sound like a nice guy with a life ahead of you,dont rush in take a break somewhere and think about it,date a few other girls live your life a little,take care
2007-03-13 21:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by rebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously it sounds like she hasn't changed her bad habits, and why would you want all that drama in your life... rebounding is probably what she is doing...
2007-03-13 21:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋