2007-03-13 21:35:01 · 14 answers · asked by deepak s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
By the way u asked this question i can understand understand that earlier she had the affair but not now na. then u can talk to her and solve the problem. But being a copy cat of having girlfriend and boyfriend shows u r un- matured nature. so grow up and think positive. Wife is for life long. So wife is important.
All the very best for ur future
2007-03-13 22:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by sneha y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would the other persons sins wash off your sins? No!!!
Your wife had and affair, but now she's your wife. Now the most important person in her life is you. You have no right to punish her for her past. Besides you never know whether she fell into affair just for her desires, or was it true love, or a mistake. Yo uare just trying to justify your desires. That's wrong.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-14 16:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear young man,
What type of a question is this?????
I don't understand why people get married in the first place and why get married so young. Today, with all the divorces and disturbed children I really don't understand the purpose of marriage!!!!!
I would prefer to see less marriages and less children but healthy families or even just healthy couples.
What is it with everybody ?????? Sex sex sex is just ridiculized and thrown out the window !!!!!
If your wife and yourself have already had an affair break up and stay single !!! marriage is not the only way to live!!!!!!!!
You will do less harm to the society and not having children will bring less problems to the both of you and to us.
I don't think the the two of you can be good parents!!!!!!!!!!!
Use common sense please!!!!!!
2007-03-14 04:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by marque1717 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a personal decision that both of you will have to make for yourselves. If you don't feel as though there is any room left for forgiveness or for even a future together then seek an annulment. Or if you stay together, enter in to an open relationship where both of your consider it OK to have multiple partners. Again, it's you and your wife's decision to decide. Sit down together & have a long, serious talk. Don't rely on the world to make the decision for you.
2007-03-14 04:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world do men marry ?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
marriage is a sacred relationship , where a husband and a wife play the most crucial role . if both husband and wife are not serious about their relationship , the why bother to grease this sacred and most pure relationship ?
discuss this matter with ur girlfriend , ask her to imagine what she would have done if her husband was doing to this to her ?
then u cut all this utter foolishness of grlfrnd,
now convince ur wife to be honest with you , like you have become honest with her .
now watch the magic of a happy married life !!!!!!!
GO ON , DO THE BEST !
2007-03-14 05:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If both are having affairs then this marriage does not have any meaning. If you guys are married you have a commitment to each other and you should sort out your differences right away.
2007-03-14 05:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by AngelEyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
consider this question is asked by your wife...
who is more important to us husband or boyfriend,when husband also had an affair ?
2007-03-14 04:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by rajan t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say wife is more important. or else marriage means nothing....it's about "til death do us apart". girlfriends come and go until you decide to make the girlfriend into a wife.
2007-03-14 04:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife is more important.she had an affair but you have an affair...past and present situations are different.
2007-03-14 05:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by ambie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wife only. Find out the reasons for her deserting you. Try to convince and brief her. Still if she does not mend in her behaviour then alternative is girlfriend only.
2007-03-14 04:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by vijay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋