Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

He always acts like he never has time for me, & I'm in a time of crisis right now, & he still acts like he can't be supportive of just taking the time to hear me vent out my problems. I don't know. I think I'm bringing too much drama into his life, in which that's not my intention. With the mental problems I'm going through, I just need to be alone right now, but how do I tell him this? He's under the impression that our relationship is perfect, but he hardly talks to me, & I only get to see him 2X/month. I feel like I have too many problems in my life to be having a boyfriend. He's in college, & I'm a college grad. I'm suffering BIG depression, & I feel so worthless that I feel like I don't even deserve a boyfriend. He's a good guy & all, but should I just break up with him & stay friends with him?

2007-03-13 22:50:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at work, I don't know if he likes me or what but every room I'm in he'll go into. Even if he has to talk loud to someone in another room he'll just be there acting like he has to do something in the room I'm in (which of couse he doesnt). When I first started the job, I was being friendly to him cause I was new. Then one day, I didn't have enough money to buy lunch so he insisted on buying (which I payed him back later cause I didn't want him thinking anything) and ever since, he's just coming around so much to the point of making me feel uncomfortable or rather annoyed. What do I do? I'm still farely new there and he's been there for a while so I don't want to cause any drama but it bothers me. I swear, everytime I go into another room, 5 seconds later, he's there or in the middle of two doors just looking at me and talking to other co-workers loudly.

2007-03-13 22:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there,
I am an Asian guy and i like a girl in my school. She is white. I don't know her name or anything about her. I Like her damn so much. I do not know how should i go about it. Should i propose or not? If yes, how should i do it? What all should i do so that she says 'Yes'. Can u please advise me.

2007-03-13 22:46:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...Women marry men always hoping they'll change, and they NEVER do!"

2007-03-13 22:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

so sad..

2007-03-13 22:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by lOvalOn 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with him for six years and I am madly in love still. He has always been a user of cannabis but for the past two years I have noticed he has become much more dependant on it. I have always tried to help him but nothing changes it really does seem like he doesn't want things to change. I care about him so much but I feel the relationship has come to a halt for some time now and I'm floundering in circles. Because I care about him so much I am finding it so hard to let go. I feel like a hopeless case.

2007-03-13 22:45:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been n this relationship for over two years. My boyfriend is loving, and respectful, but yesterday he left a page open on my computer where I found him talking sexually to other females. He said it was only internet talk and he has not met any of them. I feel betrayed, and his reaction only met it worse. When I was telling him how I felt, he told me I am not perfect either. Should I break it off? Please advice.

2007-03-13 22:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by greatgurl 3 in Singles & Dating

I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me. But I'm still not sure. I saw him talking to his ex-girlfriend (who he broke up with just so he could be with me) and they were laughing and he was twirling her hair and things like that. I really hope he isn't because I thought that we were really close but if he only broke up with the girl for me then maybe he is starting to like her again or something...I don't know but if you know anything about these kind of things then please help me!

2007-03-13 22:42:47 · 23 answers · asked by Lizzie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 22:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by s&p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and I live in our deceased grandparents house, however before they passed my mother somehow got the house in her name. So she lets us live there rent free. The only problem is, she demands she has an extra key and shows up at any given time. She stays for 2 or 3 wks, when she only lives 20 minutes away. When she's there she brings my younger brothers (9 & 11) which do not mind, and they leave food and drinks all over, they never clean up after themselves. Then she gets upset b/c her parents house is 'filthy dirty'. My sister and I are in our mid twenties, we pay all the bills including house insurance. Now she is thinking about turning the family room into her own personal bedroom! Could someone give me some good advice.

2007-03-13 22:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by DiG iT 3 in Family

I like this girl when I first met her. She is nice and I always talk with her. Everytime I near her, I fell so nervous. I want to ask if she want to be my girlfriend but I scare if she reject me. Could you help me?

P/S: She don't have any boyfriend.

2007-03-13 22:40:30 · 20 answers · asked by Strife 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 22:39:57 · 20 answers · asked by MC 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes! Please do. I've been tryin' to get a message to all of the Young Folk. But I'm assumed to be some kind of Perv. Fine! Hit me with your Best shot! I've been wanting Parents, to get the message across, to them? That they shouldn't try to act like Adults? Until they actually are. I've been tryin' to get the Kids, to realize that they don't have a clue. About what life really is.
Questions to both sides:
Parents: Is this to much to ask Children to understand that they are NOT Adults? What steps would you take to get that point across to yours?
Children: Is being forced to see the consequences of what WILL happen? If you're allowed to act like Adults. Is that being treated Cruel and Inhuman?
Finally, are the Children prepared to make a Promise, to their Parents, that they NOT act like Adults. Until they actually become one? Or is that too Disney-like of a Daydream.
Hit me with your Best shot! Fire Away!

2007-03-13 22:39:09 · 2 answers · asked by Goggles 7 in Singles & Dating

my bf said his family won't approve if he wants to marry me cos i'm not too religious and his family r. do u think i should become more religious in order to be accepted by his family to marry my bf?

2007-03-13 22:35:30 · 20 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy says that 'he's got no time for a relationship cos he's really busy with his exams that get him into uni?' he knows i like him, and said that when a mutual friend asked him whether he likes me. is that an excuse to not go out with me? or does it mean that he does like me but doesn't want to screw up his future?

he asked that friend whether i talk about him a lot... (if that helps?!) i don't know. :S

2007-03-13 22:35:03 · 8 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

I already have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship, and my boyfriend is supposed to be moving in with us next month. The problem is he keeps pressuring me to get a job, he does not want to be the sole provider and he brings this up all the time. I on the other hand want to be there for my son when he gets home from school, help him with his homework, cook tea, be a good mum. I also want to have another baby in the near future as a 7 year age gap between siblings is long enough. I told him that i might study while my son is at school for a year and he said Ok, but the next day he started going on about me getting a job so we can go on holiday this year and when i remind him he goes in a mood and says just forget about it then. What can i do, i want to make him happy! but i also want to be happy. whenever we see each other we always end up talking about money issues as he has just left university and is yet to get a job too. Any advice please?

2007-03-13 22:34:38 · 16 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am confused. I do not understand alcohol problems a sI do not have one. My recent ex partner binge drank and was aggresive and horrible to me at times, a really bad drunk. He said that he could not control his behaviour as it was not really him as he was drunk, but he likes drinking as he is a young man.I seem to think that he knew what he was doing but his inhibitions where lowered. So what I want to know is do you think that a person can be so disrespectful and uncaring to another to endanger them, but not really be responsible as they use the excuse of drinking????

2007-03-13 22:33:29 · 15 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

say if i ask "are u busy" she get fired

2007-03-13 22:32:50 · 5 answers · asked by wolfen 1 in Singles & Dating

Suppose you are sincere. Both fulfill different needs & you are nice to both of them. Is it okay then? Just how much do we operate under the layered, rigid, societal norms? And how much of breaking-free is okay when you feel justified at a deeper level?

2007-03-13 22:32:04 · 30 answers · asked by x f 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have known my mates for all my life and yet everytime i need them most they are not there for me and when they need me i m always there. What should i do? cuz they are my besties...

2007-03-13 22:29:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's a Hard Life, to be to lovers together, to love and live for ever in each other's arms.

2007-03-13 22:28:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So this is the deal, im hispanic, mexican to be exact, i never had a hispanic bf, never kissed a hispanic in my life. I only dated white man, My family thinks im a trader but im not im just attracted more to white man cause they tend to be a lot nicer, soft spoken, sweet. So this is my question do u think im a trader to my race?? do u think i should just stick to my own race?? What do u think?? Please help me.

2007-03-13 22:27:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when i guy you know and talk to from work and class.keeps on staring at you but the moment your eyes meet his.he changes his direction and pretends that he's looking at something else?

2007-03-13 22:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Singles & Dating

Dear all, I had posted 2 questions earlier and I really thank everybody for your comments. I'm beginning to have clearer mind now. I guess my ex-bf still don't know what he wants now. So I decided to leave him alone for a while and see how things will work our eventually. If he really loves me, he will probably miss my absence. Other than that, what else can I do?

2007-03-13 22:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by sillygal811610 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry I had no idea which category this goes under

2007-03-13 22:23:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Brother graduates his first year in the RAF this week and my mum is stressing about getting him a present. What would be a great little prezzie to give him on the day???
There's 10 points in this
Cheers!

2007-03-13 22:23:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i met a lovely guy some time ago through yahoo, and we have chatted via email and text and phone for quite some time. he asked if we could meet, i was quite reluctant at first but i do really want to meet him. i am aware of all the safety issues and i will take all measures necessary to ensure my personal safety. our conversations have been quite heated and we may end up in bed together ( before you all say gosh i am easy, i'm not really )the thing is i am so nervous as i have never done anything like this before.... just wondered if anyone had been in a similar situation and had some usefull tips....

2007-03-13 22:23:24 · 18 answers · asked by kira s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 22:22:51 · 18 answers · asked by aweqz_sempoi 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know how to handle my boyfriend. one minute he's all cuddly and carrying on with me and the next he's pushing me away and ignoring me. I don't know what to do.

2007-03-13 22:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by nc 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 22:21:46 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating