I like this girl when I first met her. She is nice and I always talk with her. Everytime I near her, I fell so nervous. I want to ask if she want to be my girlfriend but I scare if she reject me. Could you help me?
P/S: She don't have any boyfriend.
2007-03-13 22:40:30 · 20 answers · asked by Strife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey it was kinda the same 4 me but the other way around. My boyfriend (now) asked everyone in work b4 me 'if i asked her out what do u fink she wud say? yes or no'. I was waiting for him 2 ask me 2 go steady.
The girl is properly the same shes jus waiting 4 u 2 make ur move so jus go 4 it. She might start 2 fink that u don't want 2 go steady!
Shes waitin 4u 2 mak ur move!!! ;-)
2007-03-13 23:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are talking, find out where she likes to go for a drink with her friends. You can always turn up, with a friend and tell her she made it sound like a nice place and you thought you would give it a try. Offer to buy her a drink and if she stays and chats with you or invites you to join her company you will know that you stand a chance. Chat some more and find out what she likes to do, dance, eating out, what food she likes, theatre etc. Then you can ask her out. If she is annoyed that you are there and ignores you then you are saved the embarrassment of being turned down.
2007-03-14 05:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by ELIZABETH M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out for some coffee... maybe once maybe twice... then at one point, bring a flower... and express your emotions there verbally or on a note... not too much to smother her. for example, i like u alot and wondering how u feel about it? and if she feels the same way, then good for you and her, too... if not, that's okay.... if you haven't tried, u will regret it for the rest of your life... i guarantee that... but with making the attempt, at least u will clear the lines between her and you... don't feel so bad if she rejects u... tampering yourself, testing your mettle is what it's all about. this is how u begin to define yourself and what u would like to do in this relationship and those in the future. by making the attempt, you know u did try and that u can never forget that u did
and, my friend, u can always move one... guarantee... good luck and let me know how things went (if u like) and no worries if you don't....
2007-03-14 05:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by ogg08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your afraid of rejection play a little game, called the "who do you like"game, flirt with her as much as you can she'll catch on , if she doesn't like you then she'll stop wanting to play the game. If she does then she'll play until you tell her you like her it's as simple as that. While ur talkin ask her why she doesn't have a boyfriend and what does she like in a guy!
good luck if you don't get the game jsut flirt until the right moment when you know she likes you and she's ready for it!-Lilly
2007-03-14 06:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get anything without trying mate, I don't know how old you are, but seeing as you said "want to ask her to be my girlfriend" Im guessing you're not over 18 and can just say "Would you like to go for a drink sometime"
Ask her to the cinema or something, don't just say "be my girlfriend"
2007-03-14 05:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u likes her.. and if u know tht at some extent she likes u too.. then don't be late, ask her before anyone else....don't worry abt the ans... if it comes no then try again and again... but never annoy her.... try to ask in such a way so tht it can make her realize tht u really likes her and love her....one thing i'd like to say "Never ask for a kiss just take it, Never give a hug ask for it, Never ask do you love me first say i love you, Never say i can't live without you say i live for you"... i hope it can help u. but anything u do, do it quickly.. Best luck buddy....
2007-03-14 05:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gaurav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is there to b so nervous about. u shall never know unless you find out. and just look at the answers you have got...everyun is saying the same thing go ahead and talk to her ...what is stopping you...go ask her out before somebody else does then it shall hurt even more
2007-03-14 06:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by precious_girl08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is good to love someone indeed.If u say u love someone please be bold enough as a man to tell here ur feelings n do it in a very nice way.don't be rude if she act strangely.maybe she will also test u in one way or the other if u really love her as u say.ladies like that alot.exercise patient n pray.
the advice i will give to u is "u must be bold"
2007-03-14 05:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Annies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would jump in there quick, before someone else does, that would leave you heartbroken. if u love her tell her you love her, if she responds negatively then it wasnt meant to be. tell her u have got these feelings for her and that u r genuine, u could always try to kiss her when the time is right but be prepared.
2007-03-14 05:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by CHRIS J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faint heart never won fair lady
2007-03-14 05:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋