I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me. But I'm still not sure. I saw him talking to his ex-girlfriend (who he broke up with just so he could be with me) and they were laughing and he was twirling her hair and things like that. I really hope he isn't because I thought that we were really close but if he only broke up with the girl for me then maybe he is starting to like her again or something...I don't know but if you know anything about these kind of things then please help me!
2007-03-13 22:42:47 · 23 answers · asked by Lizzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think so, he probably is.
2007-03-13 22:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he may be or not. But this kind of situation with an ex- should be carefully taken. You know when you are with your ex- especially if you haven't broke up with a good reason, there is a possibility to get back or at least there will be interest to wards each other. So you should do your best to make him comfortable and happy when he is with you. You have to read his feelings and do the things that he likes.
If you manage doing these things you can make him stay with you. If you are so much worried about he and his ex, just ask him suddenly and then you will know some thing from what he says or responds.
Good Luck!
2007-03-13 22:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twirling her hair,
can't keep his hands to himself?
could mean it won't be long
you'll be traded for someone else
but let us be fair,
while the little things might hurt
it could mean he's gotten your attention
by being a flirt
so don't write him off just yet
like he's commit some big crime
ask him if he real;ly does love you
and the truth you will find out in time
2007-03-13 22:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i'm in your shoes, i would also think the same..but then again jumping into conclusion right away without thinking the possibilities will just worsen the scenario. why don't you talk to him..be open with each other. tell him how you feel about what you saw. if he tells you that there's nothing between the two of them, good but be very observant in his actions okay? i hope i was able to help :)
2007-03-13 22:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by MONNAX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with his ex gf for you..than why is he still talking to her? It's obvious he still likes her and seeing her. i THINK you should confront him about this and ask him what's going on in the relationship. If he was my boyfriend he would've been gone by now because that is unacceptable behaviour if u ask me. You don't deserve to be treated that way.
2007-03-13 22:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by WHATEVER!!` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for him, because his will (not saying he will or will not) do the same thing to you (what he did to his EX girlfriend) so watch him not stoke him but watch him.
If not, till him that your no comfortable with him talking with his ex and if he gets made. LEAVE HIM ALONG, because he still have feeling for her.
2007-03-13 22:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left her for you he will leave you for someone else, it is a habit. A very bad one and unfortunately if the novelty wears off he will go looking for the next thing to occupy his mind with. Ask yourself... would you rather be alone and happy and have peace of mind or stay with him and be worrying about if hes faithful and act happy? Stay true to you.
2007-03-13 22:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he might not be cheating but it seems like he might have a thing for her....and always keep in mind.. if he would dump her for you, odds are he may even dump you for another girl. my advice is.. dont worry.. eventually u will find out....also... im a girl too...usually your gut feeling is right and u will know. good luck.. dont accuse unless u are sure... also know that you can do better than someone like him if he does cheat. wish u luck.
2007-03-13 22:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is cheating on you. He doesn't know what he wants, he will eventually break up with you. Just tell him that there has to be trust in a relationship, and you don't trust him.
Don't be so insecure, your letting yourself in for heartbreak if you don't break up with him first.
2007-03-13 22:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd worry too. If they're still behaving in a flirty manner then feelings are still lingering. Tell him how you feel about what you saw.
2007-03-13 22:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by iluv_darrell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a difficult situation.first if he left her for you who would he leave you for.for future notice you broke up their realationship so what happens if he goes back to her would you feel hurt..how you feel now is how she felt..god has a way of making the universe correct itself..I call it the divine irony
2007-03-13 22:49:51 · answer #11 · answered by doughdzm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋