Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

im a dude. i like women. nuff said. she and i work together for about a month. we talk. our cash registers are only ten feet apart. but recently i found out she has a bf from her many phone conversation and i failed to mention this to her. i like her alot she short though but i dont mind; she has nice smile. her bf is a high school sweetheart. i figure i dont have a chance. but im willing to everything to impress her. i thought about stealing her phone or at least hid it. so that way ill just pretend now on that she doesnt have a bf. nice guys finish last right? anyone have other suggestions? maybe thats too extreme but then again stealing and then framing her may not get her attention....

2007-03-13 20:34:27 · 16 answers · asked by SpecialGuy 2 in Singles & Dating

His behavior says he's interested. He's flirtiness says he's interested. Some of his conversation says he's interested, but not in plain language. He made references to if he were in my bed...He told me I'd like his sexy feet...He says my conversation is starting a fire in him...He even teased if I wanna be his girl...I'd beat up the girl who seems to like him too. (I think it's a joke.) He gave me a kiss on my forehead. He said he wants to spend an entire day with me just to pay me back for helping him on a computer project. I got mad Monday night at someone else and made some rash statements. This guy rushed over to see what was wrong and who I was talking to...


IS THIS A FRIEND OR A WHOLE LOT MORE??????????

2007-03-13 20:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 20:33:38 · 10 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all of the little stubby black hairs stuck in between her teeth when she smiles at me after mowing the lawn....its priceless. after she mows the lawn, she proceeds to give me some head until i done bustanut in her stupidass mouf.

2007-03-13 20:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by john b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every time I'm out with my friends I see women going home with ment hey just met. I see women acting like trash on the dance floor and pretending to be "bi-sexual" with their girlfriends to get guys attention. What is it with young women today who don't have any class??

2007-03-13 20:32:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I divorce will I be called an 'unfit mother'? I'm doing fine, but I'm very scared knowing there's something in my head. It's not growing fast. I have to have MRIs every two years to make sure it doesn't grow. My husband lives abroad, and didn't even bother to come and help when it was diagnosed and the hospital phoned him. He phoned me angrily in the hospital and said "what the ****** is going on?"
He hasn't sent any child support for the children, and is trying to force us to go to live with him. But he lives in a remote place where the medical care is not OK for this sort of thing, and besides that, I don't think he cares if I live or die. I think it is a control thing that he wants us to go to him, and the children don't want to move there. They have been so wonderful, so brave, and they don't deserve this from their father.
I have no family to go to.
I need to divorce and get child support, but I am very worried that the court might make the children go and live with him.

2007-03-13 20:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Ele 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 20:31:29 · 1 answers · asked by darwin_david2004 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 20:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by missy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can u forget your first crush??? && and who u shared your body with???

2007-03-13 20:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its just that i can see my brother has been sad for the past few years. since he broke up with his 1st girlfriend.he was 21 that time and currently 26. he never got a girlfriend after his 1st one. he's very smart, goodlooking ( althought a bit chubby but not obvious), intellectual. some girls would show her some hints that they like him but he just wont do anything. he thinks that these girls are jst being nice...i wanna take him to go clubbing, bar hopping. and more but he doesnt want to. he's too serious about his career, forgeting his social and love life. and is really being left oout.most of his fellas are either newly weds or now a dad. what should i do to help him? i have tried talking to him a thousand times but he wont listen.please. also,he always chooses the wrong one, he likes this girls ryt now hus just totally after his money. how would i make him realize that? help please

2007-03-13 20:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by chesca d 1 in Singles & Dating

So there's these two guys i really like, and i feel bad for leading them both on, but i have to make a choice and cut one, but i can't decide.

One guy is really sweet and i have knows him most my life, he alway says nice things to me and never puts me down, he says he loves me a lot, and he's alway there for me, but he always hits on other girls. and i don't see him as much as i would like too. also he's quite a nit older then me, so people alway look at us strange when we go out together.

the second guy is totally gorgeous, he always comes to see me, he's really nice, and he makes me feel amazing. he's charming and fun, and has the nicest butt i have ever seen. but he works way to much, he works 2 weeks, and gets 2 days off. he also lives all the way across town, which isn't that bad because he normally will drive me, but when we hang out when he has to work the next day, (which is a lot because of his schedule,) I have to catch the bus across town, and i takes a good 2 hours

2007-03-13 20:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a long story,but I'm going to try to make it short as possible.So, here it goes... In Sep 04" I met this guy and it seemed as though we really did click.However,we both had significant others at the time so we never took things"all the way"...a couple of months later we were both single. We ended up "hooking up" and seen eachother for about five months.I got pregnant about two months after seeing him.His ex came back to him and I was of course then dumped.I didn't hear from him again until our son was about four months old.Which would have been in March 06" , we've talked everyday since then , for hours. He ended up marrying the gf and having a child w/her.In Aug we started seeing eachother again and it's still continuing...he says he loves her but he wont give up the relationship/friendship with me, even though she has known and threatened to leave him over him talking with me. I'm caught up in this and would really like an outsiders advice/opinion.Thanks

2007-03-13 20:28:03 · 11 answers · asked by suffer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 20:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been betrayed by my frends and need a real frend....

2007-03-13 20:25:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had been together for 6 yrs but broke up last Oct becos of a 3rd party. He is now with her. Since then he had constantly tell me he still loves me and misses me. But when I checked his email, i realised he & that girl send alot of mushy emails to each other. I feel very hurt because I still love him. It had been 5 mths since we broke up. Now I'm in oversea due to work commitments and will be back in July. When I asked him if he would like to give our r/ship another chance again.. he said yes. He tells me he will wait for me to go back. But he is still with that girl and they're really close. I love him and many times I wan to let go of this r/ship but he will cry badly.. what does he want? When I asked him who he loves.. he said he don't know.. Can guys out there please advise? I really don't want to lose him... i love him very much..

2007-03-13 20:25:24 · 10 answers · asked by sillygal811610 1 in Singles & Dating

He gets mad at me for anything I ask and then ignores me when his bro is around? what to do, Ive been with him for a long time, sometimes I think he takes advantage of me but what do I do? we know we are meant for each other but I dont like this change in him counceling is not in order and I feel sensitive about this any suggestions?

2007-03-13 20:22:42 · 11 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 20:21:49 · 7 answers · asked by joan n 1 in Singles & Dating

im a dude so i dont care much for sleeping. but lately im having issues with my manhood. i just cant decide which side of the bed to sleep. my friends tell me that sleeping on the wrong side of the bed can change your brain equilibrium or some osmosis stuff that i dont know. and somehow this changes you sexual orientation. im a guy and im not afraid to admit i like girls but seriously will this do anything to change that. im afraid sleeping on the left will make me a left wing person and then ill support who know who.

2007-03-13 20:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by SpecialGuy 2 in Singles & Dating

I mentioned to a friend of mine that i really like him by looking at his eyes and throwing some words just to get his attention.

I dont know why I regret it!!..
I feel i was so easy for him..

I still love him, but i dont like the way he treated me after he feel that..

Should i ignore him for a while?

2007-03-13 20:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by Nice Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

if there's this very pretty girl you're inlove with who all of a sudden turned ugly.no not that ugly.would you still like her?

2007-03-13 20:18:51 · 3 answers · asked by chesca d 1 in Singles & Dating

I be with her for 2 years now, and this is the 1st time she lied to me about someone. I know pretty much that this guy likes her, and she also knew it. Do you think asking her to stop going out with him is a wise thing?

2007-03-13 20:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by Yano 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell you how much I love my two girls who are 8 and 3. They are the greatest creation I have ever set my eyes on! Its just a melting feeling when ever i see them or talk to them. Their just so sweet. The baby is wide open all the time but when she goes to bed shes a cuddle baby. I know this probly sound weird comming from a Dad but i just want to see how others explain in words how much they love their kids. What do you all tell your kids to make them feel " Really Loved? "

2007-03-13 20:16:25 · 4 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

Does/can he/she keep secrets?

2007-03-13 20:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by sindy 2 in Friends

okay so heres the drama, about 3 months ago my friends andy and his long time girlfriend Krysta broke up on complicated circumstances (don't know details). andy lives on the same floor as his friend Arthur in their residence hall at college, (single rooms, very nice). so Krysta and andy have a complicated friendship, as anyone who has remained friends with an ex knows, she used to stay in the same room with him on weekends but was worried about unresolved feelings and stayed with Arthur (she had friends on the floor and enjoyed staying there) andy thought this weird but brushed it off as best he could. about 3 months later things settled down with around our circle of friends, people tried not to take sides as they were both very good friends. fast forward to mid-march. andy finds out from Krysta's text messages that she and Arthur have been dating and sleeping together for a month, and lying about it to everyone they know. (running out of room see additional details)

2007-03-13 20:15:14 · 3 answers · asked by Chirs potick 1 in Friends

she is new at school and we talk once. We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the public school. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break was over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has one that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. I havent went to school for four days and she started to look at me... We made eye contact for 3-4 seconds... When she was outside and when she was coming back she was looking down and than she look up real quick and look at me and than she look back down real quick. Last week, I hold the door for her and she just look at me in a weird way. She didn't even say thank you. She just look at me and look right back down. I think she was upset that day too. Tomorrow do you think if I ask her if she would like to take a walk, you she will say yes or no? Please be honest...

2007-03-13 20:13:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got engaged at the beginning of this year.My fiancee is too occupied in his work i wanted to celebrate valentine's day with him but he said he cannot take an excuse from his office & he dont want to create negative impression on his boss just because he is getting married.He want that we should treat everyday as a valentine day., i understand him, his work pressure but he could have tried.I am also working and i on my part make efforts to meet him but he never does.He meet only when his work is completed & never made any special efforts. Am i expecting alot

2007-03-13 20:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-13 20:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me whts a poor man,s lyric

2007-03-13 20:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Friends

i need serious help. i find myself in an emotional relationship that i can't seem too get out of. he is always lying too me and making promises he never keeps and then when i tell him how i feel he always makes everything seem like my fault, like he did it cause of something i did or he did it cause of his bad childhood and he can't help the way he is. when i try too leave he tells me he is going too kill himself, he has a gun and when i tell him i can't do this anymore he'll take it out and tell me he'll do it if i leave. he then makes me feel bad like i shouldn't be getting my feelings hurt for the **** he does and like i said he always makes it out too be my fault. i don't know what too do cause if he killed himself i don't think i could live with it.. i do love him, but i can't take this pain anymore.. i feel so tired and trapped.. i need serious help.. =`[

2007-03-13 20:11:30 · 49 answers · asked by ™ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 20:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating