im a dude. i like women. nuff said. she and i work together for about a month. we talk. our cash registers are only ten feet apart. but recently i found out she has a bf from her many phone conversation and i failed to mention this to her. i like her alot she short though but i dont mind; she has nice smile. her bf is a high school sweetheart. i figure i dont have a chance. but im willing to everything to impress her. i thought about stealing her phone or at least hid it. so that way ill just pretend now on that she doesnt have a bf. nice guys finish last right? anyone have other suggestions? maybe thats too extreme but then again stealing and then framing her may not get her attention....
2007-03-13 20:34:27 · 16 answers · asked by SpecialGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is that a joke or u re really that dumb? well, of course u re only a cshier, but i never thought they re that dumb, beyond all limits
2007-03-13 20:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just be a nice guy. 2 options: 1) Ask her out. If she plays the bf card say hey just as friends and be sincere. She may reconsider you later if you're a nice guy now. If she doesn't, see where it will go. If after a little bit things seem to be going well, ask if she's got any other interests. 2) after she's done talking to him, just kind of casually ask something like "boyfriend?" be chill either way. If she says yeah don't sweat it, be cool and then hang out with her, lunch, group of friends, nothing really a date, she might consider options. If no be like cool and then casually ask her out later.
Also, girls are more impressed with nice guys than other wise, at least from my experience.
Remember, nice guys may finish last, but they get the better women.
2007-03-13 20:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kalludge Stoodunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an extremely bad idea to steal or hide her phone, and stealing and framing her is even worse. Don't pretend she doesn't have a boyfriend, either, because you know she does, and if she loves him, and you care about her, you should want to stay out of their way so she can be happy.
I think the most you should do is try to become better friends with her, and then if someday she and her boyfriend happen to break up, you can be there for her and maybe she'll want to go out with you then.
2007-03-13 20:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Liz M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you have to do something underhandedly to get her atttention, then it's the wrong relationship your pursuing. Chances are she is just being nice, nothing else enters in. Find a girl where you don't have to bend the moral values which God has clearly set up for His people to follow.
Remember God has someone for everyone. We are the ones who don't follow His Word and mess up. What's the rush. Have you heard the song "When Fools Rush In". Don't become another statistic of a love gone wrong. protect your heart for the girl you can love and she you. God with this combination you can not lose.
God will lead the way. The Bible will be the map for you and your girl to follow.
All Hope for your success.
GramSam
2007-03-13 20:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by alivewithHim@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she show any interest in you? She may just like you as a friend? You sound like you're in danger of being in the "friend zone". Women usually know what they want. Talk with her more. Ask her more questions and you'll find out where you stand. A boyfriend is not a husband. Are you just looking for a one night encounter or something more. I wouldn't recommend stealing her cell phone. Just may start crap with the bf. Find out what the bf is lacking and make up for it. Push your limits, you'll find out where you stand.
2007-03-13 20:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try telling her how you feel, or asking her out and see what happens, if she mentions the bf then act like you didn;t know. But stealing or hiding her phone is just plain low and would most likely ruin any chance you may have with her.
2007-03-13 20:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the stealing and framing thing would be kinda funny, BUT if this guy is a highschool sweetheart your just going to get your heart broke, chances are if you get this girl she will wind up back with the other guy till she realizes he sucks. I wouldnt get involved with a girl with a boyfriend... its not a good idea. if you like her enough you can try but make sure your willing to fight for her cuz it might come to that.
2007-03-13 20:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dan. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, do not steal her fone...k - altho u can keep talking to her, and when shes not on the fone maybe u can hint that u like her, flirt...or u can just tell her how u feel, and its not like shes gonna marry her bf, so why shouldnt she give u a chance...i think u should go for it (not yor fone idea) and just b yorself...tell her she looks nice and stuff like that, or pretend u dont know she has a boyfriend and give her something or ask her out on a date, im sure she likes you by the way u guys must hang out and talk so u have a Super good chance, go on and go for it! ...I wiish u the Best of Luck! i know u can do it! she luvs ya!!!:P
2007-03-13 20:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act like a girl and over think things. if you like her, go up to her and let it be known. you don't need to impress her, let her know the truth about what you feel. and when she tells you where you stand, then plan your next move.
2007-03-13 20:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No walk away now and be done with it !
Morals are the cornerstone to where life leads you, and once you lost then you lost everything that you are.
2007-03-13 20:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude but the whole phone thing is lame! yah that would just make her mad... i'd let her go... but if you really like her then wait and see what happens between her and that her HS sweet heart. if they stay good for them if not. then good for you.
2007-03-13 20:41:44 · answer #11 · answered by brant erickson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋