So there's these two guys i really like, and i feel bad for leading them both on, but i have to make a choice and cut one, but i can't decide.
One guy is really sweet and i have knows him most my life, he alway says nice things to me and never puts me down, he says he loves me a lot, and he's alway there for me, but he always hits on other girls. and i don't see him as much as i would like too. also he's quite a nit older then me, so people alway look at us strange when we go out together.
the second guy is totally gorgeous, he always comes to see me, he's really nice, and he makes me feel amazing. he's charming and fun, and has the nicest butt i have ever seen. but he works way to much, he works 2 weeks, and gets 2 days off. he also lives all the way across town, which isn't that bad because he normally will drive me, but when we hang out when he has to work the next day, (which is a lot because of his schedule,) I have to catch the bus across town, and i takes a good 2 hours
2007-03-13 20:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, the first guy hits on other girl, but its not really in a serious way, its more our mutual lady friend he hits on, but it mostly him saying stupid pick up lines.
2007-03-13 20:42:02 · update #1
You should choose someone whom you feel you can be comfortable with. The one you whose company you enjoy the most, he can accept your faults and all, that is the one to choose. All good looks are superficial and do not last. Who knows one day you may find the gorgeous man to be wrinkling and sagging all over and the sweet guy may be too sweet for you as he attracts other girls. But be prepared for trouble if you choose the sweet guy. I hope you know the answer now. Good luck.
2007-03-13 20:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were it me, I'd probably go with the second guy, just because of the first guy always hitting on other girls. That spells trouble.
If your relationship with the second guy works out, maybe you'll eventually move in together and you won't have to worry about the distance anymore. Failing that there's also always the possibility that he'll change jobs sometime or that one of you might move somewhere closer to the other.
2007-03-14 03:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Liz M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and ask who you really want to be with more and if there is long term potential with him. I you know who you really like more or you don't see potential don't waste the time on the relationship, but keep him as a friend because if it doesn't work out with one there is the other and besides you can always use a good friend.
2007-03-14 03:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kalludge Stoodunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should choose the 2nd guy. Working too much is better than hitting on other girls. Maybe you're not the only one that ha has told that he loved a lot.
2007-03-14 03:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple... which one do you have the strongest feelings for?
I am sure that one of these guys makes your heart beat a little faster than the other, one who you feel more yourself around, one who you long to spend more time with.
Ask yourself these questions and your heart will answer.
Don't base your answer on where he lives or how much he works? Base it on your true feelings.
Hope you make the right choice.
2007-03-14 03:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Peta G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should cut it off with both of them and find that one guy that fulfills everything you are looking for. The fact that you can't decide here is a sign that neither is quite right for you.
2007-03-14 03:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow so i guess ur sleeping with two guys..............be mature make a choice...........choices are about being mature and hopefully the stupid ones u make will cause to become more mature. U got urself in a pickle so get urself out maybe u should pick the one u love but i guess if u loved either of them u wouldnt be cheating.
2007-03-14 03:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 14 years older than I am, and we are completely compatible. Don't let age difference sway your decision. #2 isn't always going to have that schedule, so don't let that sway your decision. #2 sounds perfect for me- so you take #1, and oh, yeah...I'm married. Go for it, girl. I vote for number 2.
2007-03-14 03:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the second guy. work around his schedule, it'll be worth it in the end.
2007-03-14 03:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by that_lady_sho_sho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is worse riding 2 hours on a bus or knowing that he is flirting...it is your decision
2007-03-14 03:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋