Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

my boyfriend is the sweetest thing alive...yet he's just not that smart...he doesn't know what to say or when to say it...but he's great fun!!! should I go on with him until I leave for college or should I dump him because he just never does the right thing. I know he loves me but he just stresses me a lot...I never know if he understands he made a mistake, if he doesn't, if he's acting...
talking to him is not a sloution because he won't know what to say =)) :((

2007-03-13 22:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by ADA 2 in Singles & Dating

when i m online and instant messenger ppl say i sound like a hot sexy and beautiful gurl. but in real life i m beautiful and juz above average and not the popular gurl or the outcast.(neutral)
is there somthing wrong with me?
these online guys flock me with letters everyday

2007-03-13 22:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is a girls beauty a condition for a man to fall in love with his wife ? , or is it the love that a wife gives him ?
now men plz !
supposing u married a girl against ur wishes , due to family and cultural obligations , and u used to be in love with a girl for 6 yrs , but she got married 5 yrs back and is a mother of 2 kids , will u still luv her ?
and will u fall in luv with ur wife at least some yrs later ?

2007-03-13 22:00:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

last night my bf said if we wanted to get married, his family won't ever agree, cos his family are really religious and i'm not, we're from the same background and religion it's jus me and my family are more liberal, he said he loves me but he can't go against his family. this really hurts me, he said he doesn't wanna lose me, but we both know in the future we're not going to be together. what do i do? :-(

2007-03-13 22:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 21:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my fiance for 3 years now. I found out about a month ago that he had sex with another girl about a year ago. He was not the one who told me of the incident, he lied about it until i had proof in fact. I'm finding myself in a very complicated situation, I'm madly in love with this man and I know that he had never intended to hurt me. He was severely drunk when it happened. I have given him everything that i have and everything that i am. He has been with me since my son (3 yr old) was born and has stepped in as his father even tho it is not his child. We complete each other in so many ways and make each other better people. I was just wondering if there is any way I can put this situation behind me and not suspect he is doing it again every second he's not with me. Is it possible that it was just a one-time mistake? This is very painful to deal with, I really need some advice.

2007-03-13 21:58:05 · 21 answers · asked by Lacey 2 in Singles & Dating

well, i sorta got a problem here... relating to guy, well, i have this guy friend. we spend time like we;re a couple but we;re not...we always kiss n hug n stuff... hurm.we always spend time together. watch our favorite tv shows.. but he seems to like me but he likes other girl as well. he got so many girl friends but he said he loves me?? its very complicated... but now he ask me to stay away from him... the reason is that he doesnt want me to feel that im just being played.but u know i cant! i cant even say goodbye!! i love him n i wan to have him around... i dont know what to say. im just dissapointed and feel useless. im hopeless. please say sumthing nice to me...

2007-03-13 21:57:23 · 24 answers · asked by ctkm 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 21:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by k_sudhirnayak 2 in Friends

Parents of teens, teachers, teens pls giv ur opinion. As a PARENT do u set curfews for your children?

At what extent sould the curfews be imposed?

TEENS : isnt our right to hv some freedom as long as we bring no harm to others n our selves? or is it dat teens jus tend to overdo it n cause problems. honest opinion guys

tks y'all

2007-03-13 21:54:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sean S Jeremiah 2 in Family

I proposed a guy of the same age.He said no bz he dint wanted to get distracted from studies.I agree.It has been a year since then.After that many guys pro me and i said no bz i still had feelings for him(At that time I never got even a chance to look him)since our classe's batches were separated.Now again we are in the same batch&i still got feelings 4 him.And since our 12th grade exams r over(but engineering entrance exam has2come in may), i am deciding2pro him again.And i am even ready2wait till may(when the exams get over), but i want toknow if he has the same feelings(want to know that now!).My friends say that i am behaving in a desperate manner.Is it?What is it?love or just my stubborness?I think of him all the time.1more question4u friends, should i pro him again???Please give sincere answers.

2007-03-13 21:54:39 · 10 answers · asked by Z....... 2 in Singles & Dating

Cecilia. your breaking my heart, you´re shaking my confidence daily, oh hooo Cecilia, I´m down on my knees, I´m begging you please, with my heart, oh come on now...

2007-03-13 21:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by nassim420 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never been married yet.

But sometimes, I have wondered what it would be like to have a dominant lady control you & make you worship her as Goddess & be her total slave.

Perhaps not for life, but to see what it is like, as an experience. It just seems so exciting sometimes, to think of the lady in control.

Perhaps, after this, get married? Is it wrong to want to experience this before you decide to get married or date a girl as girlfriend?

Am I wrong for having this thought? Do other people have this thought too sometimes? Am I a horrible "sinner" because of this?

Please give me your honest thoughts. Thanks!

2007-03-13 21:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I suddenly recieved a phone call from a woman claiming to be my boyfriend's wife... I was so shock!!!!

She was crying and asking me to leave him alone..
I didnt know what to say.. I just said that we were only friends and promise not to disturb their family again.

I feel sooooo guilty
Is it my fault????
I never heard his side of the story, because he never contact me since...

I tried to appologize to the wife but it made her even more sad.
I'm soooo overwhelmed with guilt.

What should I doo....

2007-03-13 21:51:07 · 25 answers · asked by LovelyLace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I've liked this girl for a very long time, and since the first time I said that I liked her, she's always told me that she didn't like me more than a friend. The real problem is that she has a boyfriend that doesn't really treat her good at all, and lies to her and all of the above.
My question is, how to get her to change her mind, and or to actually figure out if she really likes me, or really doesn't like me like that. The way she talks to me, and says my name, makes me think different than what she says, which is why I'm trying to get someone to answer this question, or just put up some advice for me to follow. I really really like her, and I really hope things work out for me, haha, wow.. but I just wanna know the truth. That's basically my question, how to get her to admit if she really does feel the way I do about me, as I do to her.

2007-03-13 21:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi guys, i really appreciate wat you had told me..specially about this lesbian thing..well, last night i was dreaming about her (ex)..i saw my friend leah (she was the one why me and my ex broke up, because last year i caught them up cheating on me..it was very painful in my part..imagine..)its like she was waiting for my ex..(this time, i know that me and my ex already broke up..)but my ex decided not to showed up, instead she wants to be with me..then together we run away..

so, wat this means??

2007-03-13 21:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by tina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyday I struggle, for what I can't say. I work so hard to get where I wanna be , but I'm so far away. I get so discouraged,and feeling so blue. I feel like I fail at everything that I do. Maybe it's cause I think about my past, and live in remorse, my whole world is crashing, and now my wife wants a divorce.
Is this really happening? I have the worst of luck. I want to change everything, but I'm stuck.
I long for my mother, she would make it better with a hug. we would have our hot tea time and she would fill up my mug.
How did life get so hard from when I was a kid? Do you believe in fate or is this something I did? It seems so hard almost to much to handle, I'm going through the rain, and it's put out my candle.
In this big city why do I feel so alone?I get on yahoo answers,and type out my frustrations in a poem. I should be having the time of my life I'm only twenty four, but instead I'm sitting in pain. I don't want to hurt anymore.

2007-03-13 21:49:07 · 12 answers · asked by lando 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 21:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by emo o 1 in Singles & Dating

in wat way does women moved on??

2007-03-13 21:48:32 · 2 answers · asked by tina 1 in Singles & Dating

Could we be friends? I love her!?
My girlfriend finished with me 2 weeks ago. Then yesterday, she sent me a message to ask if I'd like to go for a drink with her, only as friends,where we could just chat etc. I after thinking long and hard agreed. The problem was that the drink was terrible, she just started having a go at me,basically saying why she finished with me, and that she's seeing a new guy now, who's much 'better'...i just got quite upset...and i admitted rather stupidly that i had strong feeling for her, and that i loved her....she replied...that i didn't mean it...and then i just walked out...about 2 hours after, i got a message saying that she was sorry for all the hurtful stuff she said. i didn't reply. then today, i get another message saying that she wanted to be friends with me, if i wanted to, and she says she thinks it can work.....i haven't replied yet...what should i do...feel like not replying! we dated for 18 months & were good friends before!

2007-03-13 21:46:11 · 9 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 21:45:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im from a small town and I have alot of friends.
I wasnt in the "popular crowd" when i was in school but some of the "popular" kids were my friends.
So i guess i had a little social butterfly in me.
but anyway most of my friends are guys because girls hate me for no reason.
even though I have never done anything to them.
i kind of thought that it was because i hang out with the guys they know and like and maybe they think im "competition" of some sort.
the guys i hang out with are not like that to me, we are just friends.
even when im standing near them i get dirty looks or can even hear them say things about me
If it's something really bad then I would have to confront them otherwise if it's something laugh-able then i just walk on by cause i know i tick them off.
why are some girls like this?
I dont bother them so why do they bother with me?
any suggestions?...........

2007-03-13 21:44:49 · 5 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Friends

i have been seeing this guy for a while now. we get along great and i am really falling in love with him. i love everything about him. he told me a while back he has this friend. she lives about a thousand miles away. she is in love with him. she recently told him she was thinking about moving here to be near him. he told me that this complicates our relationship. he says he doesnt know what would happen if she came, whether he would be with her or not. but that he feels like he would choose her. he doesnt want to let me go and i dont want to let him go. but sitting here trying not to fall in love with him for fear of her coming him and stealing him away is killing me. what should i do?

2007-03-13 21:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy in my university who happened to work in the same place I've recently been working, having this chance we talk a lot about our job, salary and things related to that office but it does get flirty and way too personal some times, he is such a down to earth and lovely gentleman, I like him a lot and form his staring which are sometimes so obvious that make my girls go green I can see he is interested but he never steps forward I mean sometimes he is so eager to talk I can feel his need to talk but he just walks around me and gets close but wont even say a word to kick off a conversation I think he wants me to begin the talking and then he would go on, but I am not sure if he is for real i mean how should i know he is honest? I don’t wanna lose my face and be the one who always have something to say. Yes I like him, but what does it mean when he sees me and yet pretends that he didn’t, but as I say hi, he goes happy and proud and finds a lot to say?

Boys!! What goes in your head that make you act like that???

2007-03-13 21:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Singles & Dating

Jealous girl says my crush is just filling my head up to make me feel good.

She says he's filling my head up. He tells her he's not filling my head up and that I know what's going on between us. I do trust him, but I really don't know what is going on between us.

He said I was his Valentine and his Baby.

How can I tell what's going on between us?

2007-03-13 21:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you guys think(i mean lessies)

2007-03-13 21:39:31 · 7 answers · asked by zama n 1 in Singles & Dating

I thought this guy was showing interest in me - so I asked him out, and he agreed to go (he even blushd) but I should've known I wasnt ready to date yet. (Selling the house, drama with the ex, etc.)

I see him two months later and remind him of that date. He stands real close to me, softly tells me "To be honest...."
he's in a relationship now, it's not "official" and so on, and so on. I nodded my head and was about to walk away, the strange thing is he kept going on about it "I'm out of the game, I'm not in the market anymore" then he says "Thanks for the offer though, I appreciate it"

I GOT IT DUDE!! I understand.

Why'd he feel the need to go on and on with the explanations?

2007-03-13 21:39:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am always asking guys out for my friends becouse when ever we walk past them they act like... idoits but when I ask then they say no what is with that?

2007-03-13 21:39:02 · 4 answers · asked by selga1 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married (yippee) and am looking for a wedding gown designer in the bay area (SF, oakland, San Jose, Hayward, etc). I have pictures of my dream dress and MUST wear this on my big day. However, I am having a hard time trying to locate someone reputable who does really good work. I don't have a lot of time left as my wedding date is in July, so any references or help are GREATLY appreciated. Thanks In Advance

2007-03-13 21:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Orange1 1 in Weddings

yeah ... she always tease and flatter me ...touch my hair, hand...notice her stare at me and smile shyly like a silly girl ..
what should i tell her ?

2007-03-13 21:37:47 · 5 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 21:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating