my boyfriend is the sweetest thing alive...yet he's just not that smart...he doesn't know what to say or when to say it...but he's great fun!!! should I go on with him until I leave for college or should I dump him because he just never does the right thing. I know he loves me but he just stresses me a lot...I never know if he understands he made a mistake, if he doesn't, if he's acting...
talking to him is not a sloution because he won't know what to say =)) :((
2007-03-13 22:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by ADA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why da heck are you with this poor guy, you sound like your keeping hold of him till some one better comes along, he should be the one that dumps you and then he should find a decent girlf one that doesnt care how he acts and one that doesnt judge him
2007-03-13 22:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by loubylou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to have any deep feelings for this guy. How does he feel about you? If he has deep feelings don't keep him hanging on, dump him now and do him a favour. If you are both just having a good time and like being together just enjoy his fun side and ease up on worrying about his mistakes. If they are really drving you nuts, stop now. You say talking to him is not a solution, have you tried? He may not know what he is doing and if you are going to dump him anyway, you should tell him why.
2007-03-14 05:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by ELIZABETH M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real q is how do u feel about him, and not all the rest.
Do u love him?
Do u spend hours thinking about him, when ur not together?
Do u want to phone him because u just miss his voice?
Do u want to meat all the time?
Do u?
Does he put a stupid smile on ur face of happiness when ever u think of him?
Do u miss him?
Do u Do u?
If yes then what's the problem?
Sow what if his not very clever?
If he make u real happy then!!!!!!
Maybe the problem is not that he is not clever enough. Maybe he is, but he just needs to grow up a little.
Maybe this is the problem.
If u love him then speak to him.
Tell him how u feel.
If there is true love then we can achieve everything.....
2007-03-14 05:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about him, you say he loves you, but do you love him?
Do you tell him when he has made a mistake?
Perhaps he is just shy, and you sound like you are the stronger one in this relationship, perhaps you over power him.
It might just fizzle out when you go to college, or you might just realise how much he means to you.
Good luck in what you decide to do.
2007-03-14 05:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM NOW BECAUSE YOU SEEM LIKE UR GOING TO LEAVE HIM ANYWAYS WHEN YOU GO TO COLLEGE. HE MAY LOVE YOU OR HES PLAYING STUPID,, DO YOU LOVE HIM IF YOU DO U WILL BE THERE IN THE END. HE HAS MADE MISTAKES, WE ALL HAVE I HAVE MAD WAY TO MANY SO I UNDERSTAND. BUT IF I WAS YOU I WOULD LEAVE HIM ASAP BECAUSE THAT SOUNDS LIKE UR GOING TO DO THAT ANYWAYS
2007-03-14 05:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by baldwin28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ada---I couldn't stand to be around this guy for very long.
It would be best to just use him----cast him off and forget him-------you gotta trust me on this one.
2007-03-14 05:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you going on about, you have confused me.
2007-03-14 05:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mark J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's nervous about you leaving him.
2007-03-14 05:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Clint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mess him about if you dont think you want him let him find someone who does!
2007-03-14 05:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him. If not, don't use him.
2007-03-14 05:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋