i have been seeing this guy for a while now. we get along great and i am really falling in love with him. i love everything about him. he told me a while back he has this friend. she lives about a thousand miles away. she is in love with him. she recently told him she was thinking about moving here to be near him. he told me that this complicates our relationship. he says he doesnt know what would happen if she came, whether he would be with her or not. but that he feels like he would choose her. he doesnt want to let me go and i dont want to let him go. but sitting here trying not to fall in love with him for fear of her coming him and stealing him away is killing me. what should i do?
2007-03-13 21:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not already with her. we almost called it quits the other day, and HE was the one saying goodbye (go figure) but he said it was bc he could love me and he would rather have me hate him that have me possibly hurt later. i'm starting to think that the girl isnt even coming. im starting to think he is playing mind games with me (he has done it before) to gauge my reactions. i dont know, i am just so confused and need advice, cuz i really do love him.
2007-03-13 21:55:58 · update #1
This aint love you are just his fall back girl. If this better girl comes he would leave you so why the hell are you still with this jerk. And he doesnt want to let you go is a load of crap.. He already said he would if she comes
2007-03-13 21:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is using this as an excuse to get things to end with you! or does he love her? tell him that you have feelings for him and that you don't want to lose him but don't just sit around and wait for him to make up his mind! honey if your falling in love with him your already in love with him! tell him and ask him how he feels about you does he love you?
2007-03-14 04:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by heart2heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is confused of what he wants.. i'm not sure if he is selfish or wat because by saying all this, he's driving you to a corner which you can neither give up nor continue loving him. Why can't guys be more clear of what they want??
2007-03-14 04:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by sillygal811610 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, try to confirm if they are already together. If they are then make your exit.
2007-03-14 04:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋