I have never been married yet.
But sometimes, I have wondered what it would be like to have a dominant lady control you & make you worship her as Goddess & be her total slave.
Perhaps not for life, but to see what it is like, as an experience. It just seems so exciting sometimes, to think of the lady in control.
Perhaps, after this, get married? Is it wrong to want to experience this before you decide to get married or date a girl as girlfriend?
Am I wrong for having this thought? Do other people have this thought too sometimes? Am I a horrible "sinner" because of this?
Please give me your honest thoughts. Thanks!
2007-03-13 21:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not wrong. It just a sexual fantasy you have. If you have a girlfriend you can pitch this idea to her and see if she is comfortable to fulfill your fantasy. If you are still single by all means you can try it but be honest to your future partner about your wishes. You are not a sinner from i what i think. I'm sure there are people who have these thoughts if not there won't be a porn shows about domination. Experince it while you can but when you get married or date be honest. There's nothing to be ashamed about.
2007-03-13 22:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you look elsewhere on the internet you will see that you are definitely not alone in this type of sexual fantasy. Your sexual fantasy does not involve hurting anybody else so I, for one, cannot see anything remotely wrong with it and I am sure you are not a 'sinner'. It is very common to want to be sexually dominated by a woman. As for this type of sex before marriage, I would say go for it, but sex before marriage is obviously a matter of your own personal beliefs/morals and something you alone should decide is right or wrong for you.
As you said sex before marriage OR a girlfriend I suspect you are asking if you should pay for the experience. This again is for you to decide. Are you looking for permission to go to a hooker? You really do like being bossed around, huh?
2007-03-14 05:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sexual preference or personal lifestyle is completely up to you. You are the only one who can decide what makes you happy. As long as you are not hurting anyone or breaking the law you are free to seek out and experience whatever you want. If certain people don't agree don't tell them what is going on. After all what makes them happy may not make you happy. There are plenty of crazed controlling women out there that would be more than happy to make you their slave. Go for it just be careful she doesn't make you unhappy and you get stuck in it. These people are very controlling and manipulating and I think you will find unhappiness here. But the more you experience the better you know yourself and what will make you happy and you have higher chances of being happy in this case if you check out this little fantasy. I say go for it!!
2007-03-14 04:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly normal. There are many people who's sexual fantasy is to either be dominated or to dominate. You just need to discuss this with the girl when you become intimate. You may be a lot happier through life if you marry a woman who enjoys sexual domination. Just don't make the mistake of marrying someone who will dominate every facet of your life. You will just end up miserable.
2007-03-14 05:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a horrible sinner.....it's a normal fantasy. I hope this doesn't offend or horrify you, but you could buy this experience if you really want to see what it's like. If you know what I mean?
Use protection.
2007-03-14 04:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there is NOTHING wrong about that thought. Just look for an older woman that you know doesn´t take no guff from nobody. She will TOTALLY control everything in the room.
2007-03-14 04:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you want to try, go for it. It doesn't mean you are horrible or anything of the kind. It just means you have this fantasy you would like to try.
2007-03-14 04:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's absolutely nothing wrong with having those thoughts..
it's human nature to think about the "what ifs" of life..
and your fantasy is your "what if"..
your thoughts aren't costing you anything.. and well.. you are single so it's kinda normal..
you shouldn't be worried.. there's no harm done with a little fantasizing.. =)
2007-03-14 04:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not wrong for having these thoughts. girls are rarely in control of men....we can only control them thro our attitudes. if the woman of the house is mad, so is the rest of the house.
thats how it usually goes. so its ok. :)
2007-03-14 20:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by HL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL...i dont know wat yor talking about...girls r always in control...lol...anyway, i dont know if its sin but i bet u tons of other guys have these thoughts! dont feel wierd or left out, ok...and as for us women, not all of us want u to worship us, worship the Lord, bow down to no one else! but we do want u to think of us and listen and obey us 99% of the time...:P
also, we want u guys to b happy too! its not like All of us r Monsters...:P
2007-03-14 04:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Eskimo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋