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I proposed a guy of the same age.He said no bz he dint wanted to get distracted from studies.I agree.It has been a year since then.After that many guys pro me and i said no bz i still had feelings for him(At that time I never got even a chance to look him)since our classe's batches were separated.Now again we are in the same batch&i still got feelings 4 him.And since our 12th grade exams r over(but engineering entrance exam has2come in may), i am deciding2pro him again.And i am even ready2wait till may(when the exams get over), but i want toknow if he has the same feelings(want to know that now!).My friends say that i am behaving in a desperate manner.Is it?What is it?love or just my stubborness?I think of him all the time.1more question4u friends, should i pro him again???Please give sincere answers.

2007-03-13 21:54:39 · 10 answers · asked by Z....... 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Listen to your friends. If he wants you, he'll make the first move. It might be love, but if you look desperate, it is so unattractive. If you really want his attention, start acting cool. Let him do the running.

2007-03-13 22:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0 0

You said that you haven't even spent a lot of time with each other lately because you haven't been in the same classes. How do you know that he doesn't have a new girlfriend? Wouldn't it be more traditional and romantic for you if you waited for him to purpose to you? He may think that you are pressuring him. Could it be that your ego is hurt from the time when he said no that you want to do it again just to see if he will say yes, and he won't have school as an excuse this time either? I wouldn't recommend it, but your gonna do what you want anyway. I think that guys like to be the one to take charge and "be a man" and surprise their girl and see that look on their face when they ask their girl.

2007-03-13 22:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by juniper 4 · 0 0

Quit worrying about the guy and go ahead and at least finish high school and get the engineering exams out of the way. Let things alone and see if he or you is going on to college and what each of you plans to do after high school.

2007-03-13 22:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0 0

I don't know if this is love or not, but it could be just the challenge. How bad to you hate to be ignored. If it bothers you a lot, then it is probably just the challenge. Many people can not accept rejection. Are you one of them? No one else can tell you if you are in love. Believe me, you will know when it happens!!

2007-03-13 22:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

noooooooooo don't propose..
why are you forcing something that just isnt meant to be?
if the guy really likes you.. he would've said yes right away iregardless of studies or whatever..
it's kinda pathetic asking him again..
you probably just like the challenge of going for something that can't be yours..

there are plenty of fish in the sea.. wait for someone to take your bait.. dont throw a dynamite right away..

2007-03-13 22:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 0 0

u look like a bit of both well you love him so much you can wait but will your not dating him dont be stuberren and date some other men you do seem a bit stuberen wanting to tell you if he loves you dont put pressure on people it just makes it worse

2007-03-13 22:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I hate to be the bearer of bad news------but this guy just isn't into you--------the excuse he offered about not wanting to be distracted from his studies is quite lame to say the least-------it was merely an attempt to get you to move on.----and thats exactly what you should do------find a guy who will really appreciate you------he's out there waiting for you.

2007-03-13 22:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0 0

that is your stubborness ... if it takes so lone to wonder whether he likes you ..that mean for sure your innerself knows that he don't like you ...your fear of rejection has prevent you to move forward ...your stubborness has makes you thinking of him all times....trust my words

2007-03-13 21:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 1 0

well if u really like d guy then mybe better tell him wat u feel or show him u care, its better to do something about it than wait and do nothing ,...dont w8 for d tym u say i should have done this i should have told him ...

2007-03-13 21:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Thenaj 1 · 0 0

who cares. get drunk

2007-03-13 21:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0 0

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